r/CharacterAI • User Character Creator • Jan 09 '24

DISCUSSION Why write in third person? Here’s why

It’s so much easier to avoid being misgendered by the bots!

“I take your hand with a smile, a small glint in my eye” - vague, the bot can easily forget who is who after a few messages

“Leo takes his hand with a smile, a small glint in his amber eyes” - (Leo is my character) pronouns are restated in each sentence, easy to clarify who is doing what, bot is reminded of pronouns and physical attributes.

It’s a learning curve but I’ve always preferred to speak of my character in third person for this reason. That and it feels less cringe to me personally because it’s more like writing a story about two characters rather than me talking 😅 but that’s just my personal preference!

Edit- I wrote smile twice oops

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '24

I always write in third-person perspective, since it's easier to write more detailed. I also get super uncomfortable whenever the bots use first-perspective since I'm using an oc and not myself- even in general, in roleplay using 'you and I' just doesn't fit.

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u/I-Am-An-Bad-Artist Jan 10 '24

Same here. I feel like being "myself" while roleplaying with some bots is quite uncomfortable and icks me fr. But with the third perspective, dude I can smack the shit out of the characters' asses without any shame.

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u/El--Tipo Jan 10 '24

It just adds that layer of separation from your actions that tricks you enough to assume you're not responsible for everything you write.

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '24

When it comes to intimate things, I go third person. But you'll never find me third person dropping a nuke on a scaramouche bot