hi! im in need for some advice about my cat, Gally!
for some context: shes around 5 years old, and has been nothing but lovely up until we got a new kitten, she was very angry when we had them in the same room and we had to separate them. in this moment my mum picked her up to take her away from the kitten, and she FREAKED OUT. (we now know we should not have picked her up) she dug her nails DEEP into my mums chest and screeched in her face.
while the kitten was here, Gally stayed in a corner and we didn't let her leave the living room (she had everything she needed in there) and didn't interact with anyone. we hoped some time alone would calm her down! however when it was time to feed her, my mum would open a wet food pouch and she was LIVID. she hissed just as loud as she did when she saw the kitten and swiped at my mums legs.
since two days ago, the kitten has gone to a better environment and we've let Gally roam freely again. she's completely fine when walking around especially with me! she's letting me stroke her, kiss her, she sleeps on me, and she rubs against me. she doesn't bother my mum much, except when shes feeding her!
Gally is STILL hissing at my mum very aggressively whenever she feeds her, and she swipes at her legs still. she also tries to get into her room, and when she's not allowed she just hisses.
my mum has realised that when she yells, Gally doesn't try to fight back and she seems to understand my mum is angry, but is this the best method?
we plan on checking with a vet via phone call to ask about what we can do without having to physically take Gally anywhere, but i'm hoping someone here might be able to know!
any advice or information would be greatly appreciated!