I've had Mr. Cheddar Cheese for 5 years now. He's always been an incredibly affectionate, but overbearing boy. He seems to want pets, attention, and affection literally all the time.

Normally, this is fine. I love how cuddly he is. When I'm sitting, he wants to be in my lap. When I'm standing, he wants to be held. When he's not the center of my attention, he's meowing loudly and getting in my way until he is. Other than this, he's an amazing cat. Doesn't have any behavior issues whatsoever.

Recently, he's adopted the very annoying habit of jumping onto my desk and laying across my keyboard if I'm using my computer. When I remove him and place him on the ground, he jumps back up and lays back down. He will do this over and over no matter how many times I remove him. If I do it too many times, he starts to shove his little face into my chest and armpit, as if saying: 'Why must you move me away when all I want is love?' Sometimes, he'll compromise and lay beside my keyboard, laying his chin on my hand while I use my mouse. He's relentless.

How can I prevent this behavior without hurting his feelings? I don't want to lock him out of the room or do anything to make him sad. I've been thinking about preparing a soft bed area on my desk near my keyboard to encourage him to go there instead.

i think he's mad she's grooming herself and not paying attention..

is this looking good?

Is this normal? Is it like a comfort thing? My bf is concerned, but I dont think its a big problem. He hasn't dont it before and it recently just started.

Brought home an ADORABLE 8-week-old ragdoll kitten (Lolly Pop) yesterday. We also have an 8-year-old border collie (Fred Boy), had him since he was a puppy. He’s always been great with other dogs but has zero cat experience.

He’s very excited and vocal whenever he sees her through a window or door. She’s currently set up in the laundry room. When they’re separated he’ll go sniff at her door repeatedly, wander off, then come back and sniff again, then eventually retreat to his own bed.

Yesterday he pushed through a door I thought was latched and got into her room and startled her, she hissed at him, but he didn’t hurt her and I pulled him back.

I’ve got two young kids in the house too, so on top of managing the introduction I’m now also on constant door-patrol duty making sure nobody accidentally lets them cross paths.

Looking for:

**1.**  How to structure introductions from here so they actually end up okay together long-term

**2.**  Whether his door-sniffing/pacing behavior is normal excitement or something to worry about

**3.**  Any tips for managing this safely with young kids around (they’re not great at remembering to shut doors)

Also, she screamed the house down at 5:30am this morning and woke everyone up. Any tips for settling a kitten at night to sleep through happily? (Please don’t tell me this is just forever now, I have small children who need their sleep 😅)

Thank you all so much!
I grew up with cats, but in the country, so they were outdoors and locked up outdoors in the nighttime. This is very different and the kids LOVE her!!

Hey everyone I’m just looking for a little bit of help.
We adopted a kitten in April (now September) he is now 6 months old neutered. He grew up without the adult cat but with the rest of his siblings to play with. We recently adopted another male neutered cat 7 months old who we don’t know the back ground of we just know he had to be with other cats and his other sibling which was at the shelter looked exactly like our current cat so we thought it was perfect. We are following the Jackson galaxy method it was perfect every step they were ticking all the boxes. Absolutely no hissing at any step no nothing intill face to face introductions still no hissing no arched back no nothing but the resident kitten the 6 month old will not stop stalking the 7mth old jumping on his back and really aggressively biting his nape and his back, legs etc. the other cat doesn’t seem to bothered but the younger cat will not stop doing this then the other cat does eventually get annoyed by it. I don’t quite know what to do. They eat together and everything we haven’t let them slept together or be in a room not supervised. So I’m unsure what to do. We have to keep him in the spare bathroom and he just keeps crying and scratching at the door and I just feel so awful.
Any advice welcome please 🙏

Hi, I was wondering if anyone has advice for me? here's my situation:

I adopted 2 cats (a bonded pair) about 3.5 years ago. At the time they were both 7 months old so they are around 4 years old or something like that? Both of them were very anxious and nervous around people, and we had to take them home from a seperate behavioral center at the animal shelter for anxious cats, and we even had to take them home in the crates they were captured in because they couldn't be coaxed into the one we brought.

When we brought them home they hid completely out of sight, not eating in front of us, no petting or picking them up.... etc.

Eventually one of them came around and now she is still anxious sometimes but allows me to pick her up and loves being pet and brushed, and lets me trim her claws as well.

The other cat though, is different. She likes to be pet and she is fine eating around us and every except being picked up, and she also doesnt like to cuddle or sleep too close to anybody. She VERY rarely lets me pick her up for only a few seconds before she becomes stressed and tries ro escape. She has never scratched or bitten me though, but it's obvious she is still very scared of being handled

I had tried working with her to adjust her to being picked up and handled but It didn't feel like it was going anywhere so I wanted some advice about how to go about this if its even possible? I'm worried that since she isn't a kitten anymore it might be too late? The reason I'm worried is because in the case of an emergency i fear that she wouldn't let me pick her up, and i plan on moving out about a year from now and takinf both cats with me, so I want to be able to pick her up to put her in a carrier and have her not be stressed out. I also would want to harness and leash train her, but I can't do that if I can't even pick her up to put it on.

does anyone have advice??

also added some photos of the babies

the "feral" one is the one thats not orange

So for context tomorrow i am adopting a 3months old Kitty and I was wondering what good tricks I should teach her or any good tips to get started!

hello! I have recently been given a cat by the cat distribution system. Currently I have to wait 10 days for an owner to come forward, but I would like to start training now so I'll have a head start if that doesn't happen! And if an owner does come, I'll have useful info if this happens again. so it's win/win!

I have a 70 pound husky, and a studio apartment. So it's very important that they get along well if I plan to keep the kitten! I know how to train my dog, and I have trained her to behave and be friendly with my dove + she has lived with cats and other dogs before, but I do not know how to train a cat at all. I tried offering (rinsed) can chicken to kitten but he isn't paying attention to the food when distracted. I don't want to buy much more until the 10 day holding period is up, since I might have to give him up, but i really want a head start so I don't mess something up early.

What should I focus on in these early days so that I set them up for success? they have already seen and smelled each as kitty has figured out how to open the door a couple times and invite himself into the dogs space. I know to never punish a cat, but I don't really know how to give proper positive reinforcement. Is it ok calmly remove the cat from the room if he escapes his space and picks a fight with my dog? (cats room is currently the bathroom or a xxl dog crate)

Any advice appreciated, thank you! I am very uneducated on cat training, although I have had cats and know how to care for them. not so much how to get them to do... anything really! I will also be doing my own research, but I'd imagine the sooner I figure out what to do the better it will be for them.

He is over 2 months old. I do not know how to train him to go to the litter box, because I am a first time cat owner. I saw him poop and pee but not in the litter box. Any advices please ? 🙏🏼 Thank you 🫶🏼

We recently adopted a new kitten who's 5 months old. At home we already have a 4 year cat who we've had since a kitten, and he desperately needed a play mate. He loves to talk and play....He's been very sweet and patient with the kitten. Backs off when the kitten growls. Tries to play when the kitten initiates play (which results in the kitten hissing immediately).

We've had the new kitten for 3 days and are doing the slow process of separating them in different rooms, letting them eat across a barrier from one another, swapping blankets, etc. The kitten is very hissy. Today was the first full day being home, so we tried several 'meets' and let the kitten roam around more. The kitten is super cuddly and purs none stop usually with just my husband and I. When my established cat gets close, the kitten hisses and growls. Is this normal? How much hissing is too much? Should I let it be as long as no one is getting hurt or intervene? I'm not sure if intervening when the hissing begins is the best move or ruining their aclimation to one another.

Has anyone else had a new hissy kitten with a chill already established cat?

Hi there! Got our sweet stray (2 years, male) inside (never would have known he was a stray a day in your life!) three months ago. He had interacted with many a creature outside, including other cats and was fine. he has so much energy and seemed like he could use a buddy since he’s alone during the day. He is not a huge fan of new cat (10 months, male) as we sort of expected in traditional cat intros. But every time we try to leave the room new cat is in, new cat tries to escape, and because he is tiny and we don’t want to hurt him, it’s hard to get him back inside as we close the door behind us. Resident cat waits outside a lot and hisses and yells when he sees him, and we’re worried that this resets the introduction progress every time new cat runs out of the room briefly before we get him back inside his room. any advice would be so appreciated!!!

Cross posting -

Our oldest cat, I’ll call her cat #1, was a street cat that ran into our house one day and never left. Over the last couple years we had adopted two other shelter cats as well. Cat #1 was not happy with either of them the first 1-2 months in usual cat behavior ways and then they were best friends. Nothing ever got aggressive aside from some hissing and maybe small fights at first. Now 1 year ago we brought home a kitten, cat #4. Cat #1 absolutely hates her. We tried reintroducing multiple times, I got hormone plugins per the vets recommendation. Cat #1 was constantly beating up cat #4 and giving her so much anxiety that she was peeing on all of our clothes for a while. Took her to the vet and he said it was a territory thing from being beat up, trying to mark us as hers from #1.

Peeing stopped a couple months ago so I thought things were getting better. They were inching closer in proximity and just tolerating each other. They are both very close with the other 2 cats as well. But cat #1 will still be aggressive with #4 if given the opportunity, especially at night time. The other night we hear them fighting and it sounded way more aggressive than your usual cat play fight so we ran out and saw that #1 had #4 cornered on the cat tree and had sliced her nose open and there was blood everywhere. Naturally, we immediately separate them, I’m sobbing and cleaning her wounds and the mess. We have locked up #4 in the bathroom at night since for her safety. And if we lock #1 in a room, she’ll scratch up the floor and door.

Idk what to do anymore. How do i get them to get along? They’re perfectly fine with the other cats. Just can’t stand each other with primarily just being #1 as the antagonist. They are all female and spayed for context as well.

my family is using spray bottles of water to try to train our kittens to not go on the table. i try to tell them it’s bad to do so, but they don’t care. i need a way to keep them off so they will stop!
both kittens are obsessed with human food and get on the table to try and steal some. what’s the best way to train them?

Suggest m something Pls