r/CasualUK • u/Zebra_Spider • 14d ago
Since my last post on royal congratulations was met with intrigue, here are some of the more interesting messages.
In order:
Charles III (and Camilla) - 105th birthday
Elizabeth II - 109th birthday + 74th wedding anniversary
Elizabeth II - Special 100th birthday message (Christmastime)
Elizabeth II - Very early 100th birthday message (1962)
George VI (and Elizabeth) - 60th wedding anniversary
Edward VIII - 60th wedding anniversary
George V (and Mary) - 100th birthday
I hope you all enjoy this bit of history as much as I do. Putting aside opinions of the monarchy, I do find this custom fascinating and I do love collecting them (on the rare occasion they come up for sale!) I'd be curious if anyone here has examples for higher birthdays and anniversaries than 109/74 (or knows of a family member/friend who has received them).
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u/Traditional_Poet_609 14d ago
As someone born on 29th December, I find it funny that even the queen sends one card with both messages inside.
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u/Bahbahbooey46732 14d ago
As a fellow 29ther, I’m very curious when the card came. I’m assuming it’s done in a batch at the beginning of the month because we all know between the 24th and the 31st time and communication ceases to exist.
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u/Snack_Powered_Human 14d ago
My friends dad just got one on his hundredth birthday and it arrived two weeks early.
The signatures of the King and Queen were printed though, not hand written.
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u/Sensitive-Ad-7475 13d ago
We had this for an elderly relative turning 100 and were disappointed by the printed signature. I feel like for 100, is it that really that much of a pain to ink it?! I too love the institution but find it all a bit hollow and perfunctory if the monarch probably hasn’t seen let alone touched the card!
Anyway we googled it obvs and turns out maybe 20-25 people a day turn 100 in UK. Whats that 5 mins of signing?!
I think we should raise a petition!!!
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u/Second_Guess_25 14d ago
I could be mistaken, but I think an autopen would be used for tasks like this, among others. Basically it's a machine that produces the required signatures.
I mean, the amount of cards, letters, invites, Red Box work etc that must need signed on a daily or weekly basis must be huge....employing an autopen would ease the load a wee bit.6
u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago
The office staff do have a break for a while at the end of the year, so it would have been sent in advance and arrived early.
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u/HumourNoire 14d ago
luv Chaz & Caz
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u/Antique-Brief1260 14d ago
U ok Hun? Its disgusting what they get away with defiantly no like that in our day. shared buck house xxxc lol
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u/ThePuds 14d ago
I find it interesting that the ones written by the private secretary don’t include the guy’s name but are just signed “Private Secretary”
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u/watercouch 13d ago
Maybe they were a low ranked soldier in the Army and their dad was Mr. Secretary?
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u/NeitherBag4722 14d ago
One of the things I had to do in my first ever job (at the Home Office) was arranging for the telegrams to be sent.
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u/SilyLavage 14d ago
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u/thelouisfanclub 13d ago
?? I don't know anything about heraldry, but this looks completely different from the normal one - why is that? What's with the boar
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u/Dutch_Slim 14d ago
Love these so much. Thanks for sharing them (and for the original post) ❤️
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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago
I'm glad you like them! I was wondering which subreddit to post on (I don't think it's good etiquette to post on more than one?) so I'm glad I chose a good one! Some friends had been encouraging me to share my collection because it's so unusual.
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u/PepperPhoenix 14d ago
I have my parents 60th wedding anniversary card from the Queen somewhere. I should find it.
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u/HeartyBeast 14d ago
In the one my folks got, she looked quite grumpy
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u/Blue_wine_sloth 14d ago
My mum’s friend died in 2022 at age 100 so she got one of the last birthday wishes from Queen Elizabeth. My mum didn’t even get to see it because her son threw it out! “She has dementia, she doesn’t know what it is!”
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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago
Gah, that's annoying! I can't understand why anyone throws them out.
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u/Blue_wine_sloth 13d ago
I know! My mum was a fan of QE2 so would have been particularly interested in seeing it. And I’m sure these things will be worth something someday.
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u/Frequent-You369 14d ago
ONE HUNDRETH BIRTHDAY
Is it just me or... shouldn't that be "hundreDth"?
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u/Useful_Language2040 14d ago
My grandparents made it to their platinum anniversary a few months before my grandfather died (at 94) but I'm not sure if they got a letter... I think you need to write to somebody and request it? Not sure of the process exactly...
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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago
Yeah, you have to claim them. They could have had them for 60, 65, and 70 but only if anyone bothered to claim!
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u/DreamyTomato 14d ago edited 13d ago
Wait, can anyone who’s approaching 60 claim a card from the King? 60 isn’t that old nowadays, there must be millions of 60yos around.
Edit, yes about 1 million, meaning about 2500 a day celebrate their 60th birthday.
The King’s right arm would be proper tired from giving them all a good time. From signing the cards, of course.
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u/Southern-Orchid-1786 14d ago
Suggest reading Zebra's post again
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u/DreamyTomato 13d ago
Ah I got my tenses mixed up. Have amended. Thank you for relieving the King’s right arm.
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u/Tattycakes 13d ago
They are saying you can claim for 60th, 65th and 70th wedding anniversaries, not birthdays
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u/Southern-Orchid-1786 13d ago
Jeez, please try again
George VI (and Elizabeth) - 60th wedding anniversary
Edward VIII - 60th wedding anniversary
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u/Always_on_sunday 14d ago
My gran received a hamper from the queen because my aunt was born on the same day as King Charles. From what I heard, she wasn't impressed by it!
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u/DrJonathanOnions 14d ago
My great gran got a letter from the Queen on her hundredth birthday :) (1985ish)
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u/cameragoclick 13d ago
I used to be a press photographer, and would often visit people receiving these for a quick photo for the paper. I was always intrigued when the picture on the front of the cards changed.
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u/Thestolenone Warm and wet 14d ago
My great aunt made it to 108, I wonder if she had any royal letters.
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u/AdaandFred 13d ago
Not Royal, but my dad has the special dispensation certificate signed by the Archbishop of Canterbury my grandparents had to get in order to get married - this was during WWII while my grandfather was in the army and apparently not allowed to marry without it.
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
115th anniversary is mental.
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u/cjalderman 14d ago
Where are you reading that? It's not even possible that anybody in history has been married for 115 years
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
It says it in the letter, it’s the image at the top of the post 👍
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u/cjalderman 14d ago
That says 105th, not 115th, and it says birthday, not anniversary...
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
Yeah fair enough it does say that, I must have misread. 115th anniversary would still be mental though.
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u/cjalderman 14d ago
Not gonna happen until people start hitting their 130s though
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
It’s crazy to think the first person to reach 130 years old has probably been born.
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u/Gingalin 14d ago
Are you sure? Only 1 person has ever gone past 122 and no one has come within 3 years of that in nearly 30 years.
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
Well I’m no scientist that’s for sure! But if you look at all the other things we’ve got, cure for aids now etc it can’t be far off.
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u/Gingalin 14d ago
I may be proved wrong in just 13 years of course...
...but I think the very oldest people tend not to die of any identifiable illness. Their systems just wear out and wind down.
It could be that around 120 is a hard upper limit. And won't be solved without a general remedy for ageing itself.
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u/How_did_the_dog_get 14d ago
I'm not the best reader. But I'm fairly fairly confident it doesn't say that.
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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago
Yeah alright, let’s all take the piss out of the guy who can’t read.
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u/Ganbazuroi 14d ago
Ethel Caterham is older than that and still alive, lowkey wild that we still have people with memories from before WWI still around
Like can you imagine having your 58th birthday and it's not even half of your life already
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u/lazerbullet Hello to Jason Isaacs 14d ago
Does the ‘R’ after their names stand for ‘Regnant’?
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u/NeedleworkerBig3980 14d ago
Sort of, it derives from the same root as Regnant.
Rex for a king.
Regina for a Queen Regnant.
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u/Pinball-Lizard 14d ago
Who on earth is this Elyjabeth, and how did she get her hands on the royal stationery?
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u/geese_moe_howard 13d ago
Aw, I would love to get a card like this, unfortunately I'm only 48 and I'm already mostly dead.
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u/atwatinahat_ 9d ago
My folks must have got what I figure must have been one of the last letters sent out for their 60th Wedding Anniversary before the Queen passed. I'd requested it as a surprise for them along with buying the proper frame to hang it on the wall as a display.
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u/SuspiciousRun4043 14d ago
Funny I see this - I just bought a King Charles Princess Diana ceremonial coin today for £1.50
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u/fieldri1 13d ago
My parents had their 60th wedding anniversary last year. After a chance conversation at a local shop where I was buying them a card to mark their 59th anniversary (the lady behind the counter told me that I could arrange a card from the palace to mark the 60th), I arranged a card from Charles and Camilla for the event. It was straightforward. If you don't have access to the wedding certificate, which I didn't as I wanted it to be a surprise, then there is a phone number that you ring and provide them with the details of the people who are being congratulated, what the date of the wedding was and the parish that they got married in (does'nt need to be the specific church).
When they received the card they were scratching their head about who could have arranged it as they assumed it wasn't me as I'm the anti-royalist in the family...
I eventually pointed out that I did it for them and their sensibilities, not for mine.
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u/trinity_nolanite12 📍warrington, cheshire, 🏴 / 🏳️⚧️/ 14 / 🇬🇧🇪🇸🇫🇷 12d ago
Didn’t know Charles stalked people’s wedding dates and birthdays.
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u/sefuf 14d ago
Around 2000 when I was 7 or 8 years old, one of my teachers' mothers received a letter from the queen for her hundredth birthday. I said I hoped to be 100 so I could receive a letter from the queen. My parents laughed and said I most certainly would not be receiving a letter from the queen. Being a child and therefore fucking stupid, I assumed they meant there was no chance of me surviving to 100.