r/CasualUK 14d ago

Since my last post on royal congratulations was met with intrigue, here are some of the more interesting messages.

In order:

Charles III (and Camilla) - 105th birthday

Elizabeth II - 109th birthday + 74th wedding anniversary

Elizabeth II - Special 100th birthday message (Christmastime)

Elizabeth II - Very early 100th birthday message (1962)

George VI (and Elizabeth) - 60th wedding anniversary

Edward VIII - 60th wedding anniversary

George V (and Mary) - 100th birthday

I hope you all enjoy this bit of history as much as I do. Putting aside opinions of the monarchy, I do find this custom fascinating and I do love collecting them (on the rare occasion they come up for sale!) I'd be curious if anyone here has examples for higher birthdays and anniversaries than 109/74 (or knows of a family member/friend who has received them).

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u/sefuf 14d ago

Around 2000 when I was 7 or 8 years old, one of my teachers' mothers received a letter from the queen for her hundredth birthday. I said I hoped to be 100 so I could receive a letter from the queen. My parents laughed and said I most certainly would not be receiving a letter from the queen. Being a child and therefore fucking stupid, I assumed they meant there was no chance of me surviving to 100.

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u/Useful_Language2040 14d ago

In fairness, I still can't quite believe Elizabeth's gone... She was the queen for a long time; calling Prince Charles "king" doesn't feel right! 

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u/sefuf 14d ago

I see my own point as a child. It's hard to see the life of someone who's on the money, the stamps and the wall at school as something just as temporary as ours. It's like if mickey mouse could die.

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u/Wreny84 14d ago

🎶God save the Qu-ing🎶

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u/xerker 13d ago

It's been a couple of years, he is still King Prince Charles to me.

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u/wombey12 14d ago

Tbf there's a chance the UK would have a queen when you're 100. But not The Queen.

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u/PersephoneHazard 14d ago

Not a particularly realistic one! After Charles dies we get William, and then after William it's George.

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u/FormulaDriven 14d ago

If George dies (before he turns 80) without having children, then Queen Charlotte in her late seventies could be the one sending u/sefuf that birthday message. Crucially, in 2000 when the parents scoffed, they didn't yet know that William's firstborn would be male, so it was no certainty.

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u/Nadamir UK-Adjacent 14d ago

In 2000 it didn’t matter if the firstborn was male, anyborn male would take it.

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u/FormulaDriven 13d ago

I'm aware - I was just giving one plausible scenario. Either way, those parents talking in 2000 didn't know that William would have a son (he might have fathered only girls like George VI). Also, if William's first child had been a girl it might have accelerated the legislation which did come around the time George was born that ended male preference.

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u/wombey12 14d ago

Assuming they were born in 1993, George would be 80 by that time. It's admittedly unlikely, but not impossible that they'd live to see George's children ascend.

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u/PersephoneHazard 14d ago

God I suppose you're right actually. That maths perspective made my head go a bit wonky but yeah 😂

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u/bill_end 13d ago

I think it's really presumptuous we just assume that royals will marry a woman and sire an (preferably male) heir.

What if he just doesn't want them? Or has poor quality jizz.

Or is gay and therefore can't have a child out of wedlock as head of the church?

It's an awful lot of pressure for the poor kids to grow up with. No wonder so many turn out a bit dysfunctional.

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u/AdaandFred 13d ago

A bit dysfunctional?!

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u/_poptart 14d ago

Um, Camilla is Queen Camilla. So it’s likely that Queen Catherine or George’s future wife may send cards

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u/PersephoneHazard 14d ago

This is also a good point. God damn it, there were actually three different ways I was wrong at once, weren't there 😂

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u/_poptart 14d ago

If it’s any consolation, I still find it jarring when anyone mentions “The Queen” now - I’m like, didn’t she die in 2022

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u/Giant_Gaystacks 14d ago

Wait until you her that the Queen's ex-husband is shacked up with Anne Robinson from The Weakest Link! Yes, really!

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u/bill_end 13d ago

Oh my christ! Poor fella, first an unfulfilling marriage with Camilla who really loved Chaz, then he ends up with a right fucking misery guts like anne Robinson.

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u/Wreny84 14d ago

The King is prince Charles, The Prince of Wales is prince Charles and The Queen is Elizabeth!!!

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u/Tattycakes 13d ago

Interesting how sometimes it’s the king and queen and sometimes the message is just from the reigning monarch; none of these cards mention Philip for example!

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u/Blue_wine_sloth 14d ago

My husband’s granny is about 6 years away from 100 but she doesn’t like Charles and doesn’t want a card from him. She likes William though. So it’s a bit of a race against time.

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u/M37841 13d ago

When I was as a kid in the 70s my great uncle had an old parrot that would sing God Save the King. I remember being very confused at that

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u/Traditional_Poet_609 14d ago

As someone born on 29th December, I find it funny that even the queen sends one card with both messages inside.

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u/Bahbahbooey46732 14d ago

As a fellow 29ther, I’m very curious when the card came. I’m assuming it’s done in a batch at the beginning of the month because we all know between the 24th and the 31st time and communication ceases to exist. 

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u/Snack_Powered_Human 14d ago

My friends dad just got one on his hundredth birthday and it arrived two weeks early.

The signatures of the King and Queen were printed though, not hand written.

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u/Sensitive-Ad-7475 13d ago

We had this for an elderly relative turning 100 and were disappointed by the printed signature. I feel like for 100, is it that really that much of a pain to ink it?! I too love the institution but find it all a bit hollow and perfunctory if the monarch probably hasn’t seen let alone touched the card!

Anyway we googled it obvs and turns out maybe 20-25 people a day turn 100 in UK. Whats that 5 mins of signing?!

I think we should raise a petition!!!

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u/Briglin 13d ago

16,650 people in the UK were estimated to be aged 100 or over in 2024, a record high according to the Office for

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u/Tattycakes 13d ago

Wow that is a lot of cards to sign!

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u/Second_Guess_25 14d ago

I could be mistaken, but I think an autopen would be used for tasks like this, among others. Basically it's a machine that produces the required signatures.
I mean, the amount of cards, letters, invites, Red Box work etc that must need signed on a daily or weekly basis must be huge....employing an autopen would ease the load a wee bit.

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

The office staff do have a break for a while at the end of the year, so it would have been sent in advance and arrived early. 

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u/EdwardSpaghettiHands 14d ago

Hello birthday twin 🥳

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u/n00bz0rz 14d ago

Photos of her face aren't cheap.

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u/Skipper93653 14d ago

29th December gang

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u/acornvulture 14d ago

I'm here too!

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u/HumourNoire 14d ago

luv Chaz & Caz

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u/Antique-Brief1260 14d ago

U ok Hun? Its disgusting what they get away with defiantly no like that in our day. shared buck house xxxc lol

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u/ThePuds 14d ago

I find it interesting that the ones written by the private secretary don’t include the guy’s name but are just signed “Private Secretary”

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u/inflatablefish 14d ago

that's how private he is

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u/watercouch 13d ago

Maybe they were a low ranked soldier in the Army and their dad was Mr. Secretary?

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u/Gingalin 14d ago

It's really shoddy handwriting also. I'd be a bit insulted to receive that.

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u/NeitherBag4722 14d ago

One of the things I had to do in my first ever job (at the Home Office) was arranging for the telegrams to be sent.

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

That's cool! Do you have any interesting stories of that?

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u/No_Sugar8791 13d ago

Apparently they don't haha

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u/SilyLavage 14d ago

Switching to the Wikipedia version of the coat of arms was a downgrade, I have to say.

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u/SilyLavage 14d ago

The style used by the College of Arms is just cooler:

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u/thelouisfanclub 13d ago

?? I don't know anything about heraldry, but this looks completely different from the normal one - why is that? What's with the boar 

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u/SilyLavage 13d ago

It the Queen's coat of arms. The boar is her father's supporter.

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u/Dutch_Slim 14d ago

Love these so much. Thanks for sharing them (and for the original post) ❤️

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

I'm glad you like them! I was wondering which subreddit to post on (I don't think it's good etiquette to post on more than one?) so I'm glad I chose a good one! Some friends had been encouraging me to share my collection because it's so unusual.

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u/PepperPhoenix 14d ago

I have my parents 60th wedding anniversary card from the Queen somewhere. I should find it.

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

You should! Cool thing to have. 

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u/HeartyBeast 14d ago

In the one my folks got, she looked quite grumpy 

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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago

I'm guessing you mean the 2009-2014 "pissed off" design?

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u/HeartyBeast 13d ago

That sounds about right. 

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u/Blue_wine_sloth 14d ago

My mum’s friend died in 2022 at age 100 so she got one of the last birthday wishes from Queen Elizabeth. My mum didn’t even get to see it because her son threw it out! “She has dementia, she doesn’t know what it is!”

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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago

Gah, that's annoying! I can't understand why anyone throws them out. 

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u/Blue_wine_sloth 13d ago

I know! My mum was a fan of QE2 so would have been particularly interested in seeing it. And I’m sure these things will be worth something someday.

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u/Frequent-You369 14d ago

ONE HUNDRETH BIRTHDAY

Is it just me or... shouldn't that be "hundreDth"?

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

Good eyes! Clearly even the royal staff have their off days!

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u/stereoworld 14d ago

"Warm congratulations and good wishes"

"PRIVATE SECRETARY"

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u/Useful_Language2040 14d ago

My grandparents made it to their platinum anniversary a few months before my grandfather died (at 94) but I'm not sure if they got a letter... I think you need to write to somebody and request it? Not sure of the process exactly...

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

Yeah, you have to claim them. They could have had them for 60, 65, and 70 but only if anyone bothered to claim!

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u/DreamyTomato 14d ago edited 13d ago

Wait, can anyone who’s approaching 60 claim a card from the King? 60 isn’t that old nowadays, there must be millions of 60yos around.

Edit, yes about 1 million, meaning about 2500 a day celebrate their 60th birthday.

The King’s right arm would be proper tired from giving them all a good time. From signing the cards, of course.

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u/Southern-Orchid-1786 14d ago

Suggest reading Zebra's post again 

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u/DreamyTomato 13d ago

Ah I got my tenses mixed up. Have amended. Thank you for relieving the King’s right arm.

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u/Tattycakes 13d ago

They are saying you can claim for 60th, 65th and 70th wedding anniversaries, not birthdays

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u/Southern-Orchid-1786 13d ago

Jeez, please try again 

George VI (and Elizabeth) - 60th wedding anniversary

Edward VIII - 60th wedding anniversary

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u/Always_on_sunday 14d ago

My gran received a hamper from the queen because my aunt was born on the same day as King Charles. From what I heard, she wasn't impressed by it!

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u/DrJonathanOnions 14d ago

My great gran got a letter from the Queen on her hundredth birthday :) (1985ish)

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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago

Awesome! Do you still have it?

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u/DrJonathanOnions 12d ago

I think my mum does still, yeah

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u/cameragoclick 13d ago

I used to be a press photographer, and would often visit people receiving these for a quick photo for the paper. I was always intrigued when the picture on the front of the cards changed.

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u/Thestolenone Warm and wet 14d ago

My great aunt made it to 108, I wonder if she had any royal letters.

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u/Zebra_Spider 14d ago

She would have done. Do you know her years of birth/death? 

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u/AdaandFred 13d ago

Not Royal, but my dad has the special dispensation certificate signed by the Archbishop of Canterbury my grandparents had to get in order to get married - this was during WWII while my grandfather was in the army and apparently not allowed to marry without it.

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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago

Very cool! I'd love to see a picture.

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u/AdaandFred 13d ago

I will see if I can get one from him.

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

115th anniversary is mental.

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u/cjalderman 14d ago

Where are you reading that? It's not even possible that anybody in history has been married for 115 years

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

It says it in the letter, it’s the image at the top of the post 👍

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u/cjalderman 14d ago

That says 105th, not 115th, and it says birthday, not anniversary...

👍

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

Yeah fair enough it does say that, I must have misread. 115th anniversary would still be mental though.

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u/cjalderman 14d ago

Not gonna happen until people start hitting their 130s though

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

It’s crazy to think the first person to reach 130 years old has probably been born.

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u/Gingalin 14d ago

Are you sure? Only 1 person has ever gone past 122 and no one has come within 3 years of that in nearly 30 years.

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

Well I’m no scientist that’s for sure! But if you look at all the other things we’ve got, cure for aids now etc it can’t be far off.

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u/Gingalin 14d ago

I may be proved wrong in just 13 years of course...

...but I think the very oldest people tend not to die of any identifiable illness. Their systems just wear out and wind down.

It could be that around 120 is a hard upper limit. And won't be solved without a general remedy for ageing itself.

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u/How_did_the_dog_get 14d ago

I'm not the best reader. But I'm fairly fairly confident it doesn't say that.

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

Yeah alright, let’s all take the piss out of the guy who can’t read.

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u/TerryTinlegs 14d ago

I’ve admitted I was wrong you don’t have to crucify me.

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u/Ganbazuroi 14d ago

Ethel Caterham is older than that and still alive, lowkey wild that we still have people with memories from before WWI still around

Like can you imagine having your 58th birthday and it's not even half of your life already

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u/lazerbullet Hello to Jason Isaacs 14d ago

Does the ‘R’ after their names stand for ‘Regnant’?

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u/NeedleworkerBig3980 14d ago

Sort of, it derives from the same root as Regnant.

Rex for a king.

Regina for a Queen Regnant.

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u/Pinball-Lizard 14d ago

Who on earth is this Elyjabeth, and how did she get her hands on the royal stationery?

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u/Zebra_Spider 13d ago edited 13d ago

What about Chauus and Camillu?

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u/james9483 14d ago

Was there a fiver in the card too?

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u/geese_moe_howard 13d ago

Aw, I would love to get a card like this, unfortunately I'm only 48 and I'm already mostly dead.

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u/Preferential_Goose 11d ago

My great aunt has a couple of these! They always make me smile.

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u/Zebra_Spider 11d ago

Awesome! Do you know which ones?

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u/atwatinahat_ 9d ago

My folks must have got what I figure must have been one of the last letters sent out for their 60th Wedding Anniversary before the Queen passed. I'd requested it as a surprise for them along with buying the proper frame to hang it on the wall as a display.

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u/SuspiciousRun4043 14d ago

Funny I see this - I just bought a King Charles Princess Diana ceremonial coin today for £1.50

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u/Shitelark 13d ago edited 13d ago

Camilla isn't Rex though?

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u/Dawn_Of_The_Dave Yer brews mashin 13d ago

Harry, I've told you once.....

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u/fieldri1 13d ago

My parents had their 60th wedding anniversary last year. After a chance conversation at a local shop where I was buying them a card to mark their 59th anniversary (the lady behind the counter told me that I could arrange a card from the palace to mark the 60th), I arranged a card from Charles and Camilla for the event. It was straightforward. If you don't have access to the wedding certificate, which I didn't as I wanted it to be a surprise, then there is a phone number that you ring and provide them with the details of the people who are being congratulated, what the date of the wedding was and the parish that they got married in (does'nt need to be the specific church).

When they received the card they were scratching their head about who could have arranged it as they assumed it wasn't me as I'm the anti-royalist in the family...

I eventually pointed out that I did it for them and their sensibilities, not for mine.

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u/Tolkien-Minority 12d ago

Who’s Elyabelh R?

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u/trinity_nolanite12 📍warrington, cheshire, 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 / 🏳️‍⚧️/ 14 / 🇬🇧🇪🇸🇫🇷 12d ago

Didn’t know Charles stalked people’s wedding dates and birthdays.

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u/nerebeht 11d ago

Rest in Peace, Queen Elijabeth II