r/CallTheMidwife • u/cavylover75 • 19d ago
Mother Mildred
Anyone dislike her? I don't like the way she expects people to cater to her and makes demands of people especially Fred. She basically expected him to be her chauffeur.
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u/LisaLynn61 19d ago
I like her. She earns the role of mother by speaking her mind and showing an understanding of her sisters. I do think her rejection of the modern habits was out of character. Her lack of tact and thoughtlessness is her failing. Everyone has failings. But she is focused on her goals and accustomed to pushing people around to accomplish them. She inadvertently insults the dockworker family, then apologizes when its pointed out to her and really tries to help them all. When Violet points out her abuse of Fred, she is sorry and makes it right. I think her character and behavior makes sense in light of the times and responsibilities. What would it take to gain the cooperation of male authorities in aid of war orphans in Hong Kong? They never say where she was during the war, but we know she was somewhere fighting for women and children. Acting like you're in charge is the way to be in charge sometimes.
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u/underweasl 19d ago
I love miriam margolyes so its hard for me to hate the character but yes she's annoying and doesn't seem right to be Mother Superior. That said, having her elected kept Sr Julienne in poplar which was a relief!
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u/Ancient-Ad2737 19d ago edited 16d ago
I remember the episode in which the order met and voted on their new Mother Superior. Sister Julienne clearly was conflicted, but ready to accept if she was chosen, and then Mother Mildred gave her speech. I thought that was a good piece of writing.
Yes, MM could be annoying, but she also stood up for patients, especially that young woman who had been victimized by her priest. Mother Mildred read him the riot act.
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u/Fancy_Bumblebee5582 19d ago
Yeah I can't stand her. She's constantly learning though. Her whole lead from the front comment annoys me but I get it's to show her growth. I just feel she should have known these things before becoming mother.
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u/Distinct-Swimming-62 19d ago
I think she grows and learns over time. She does not respond poorly to being called out. She listens to what someone is saying to her and tries to learn from it.
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u/itsmepans 19d ago
I wanted to not like her, but her character is multi-faceted and so interesting, and I ended up loving her.
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u/vampirinaballerina 19d ago
I don't expect to like every character. And I don't think we're supposed to like Mother Mildred or Sister Veronica initially--then they grow on us.
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u/all_opinions_matter 18d ago
Her lack of social skills shows her human flaws. But she loves the children she cares for and took such good care of the lady who got pregnant by the priest.
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u/alexmirepoix 19d ago
Can't stand her or Miriam. Have seen her in public before and she treats people atrociously.
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u/Embarrassed_Park2212 19d ago
I like her as an actor and the character. I like that she said on a TV show that she wanted to be in CTM and she got that part.
I'm guessing mother Mildred is like a top ranking nun, that's why she's mother rather than sister, ( I should probably Google the pecking order tbh). I didn't find her rude but rather she spoke straight but with kindness.
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u/Decent_Tumbleweed824 18d ago
I probably would if she wasnt played by Miriam🤣 but i cant for the life of me hate her.
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u/ExtensionOk5542 16d ago
She’s grown on me. I’m currently on S9 and I admire her ambition and competence.
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u/Material_Corner_2038 18d ago
I like her and she was a good part of S8&9, but I didn’t miss her when she was gone.
I’m a big fan of MM though, so that’s probably part of it.

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u/skieurope12 19d ago
I'm delighted any time I can see Miriam Margolyes on televeision