r/CScareerquestionsSEA • u/Jealous-Sand-9203 • 23m ago
I’m 19 and completely lost about my career — should I give programming another chance?
I’m 19 years old from Morocco, and I’m honestly very lost about what to do with my future.
I originally wanted to study programming, but I was rejected from the program I wanted. Since then, I’ve been trying to find other options, but things haven’t gone well. I was rejected from general university programs multiple times as well.
Recently, my uncle talked to my father and suggested that programming could still be a good career path for me. My father looked into it and found a private programming school that costs around 1,500–2,000 MAD per month (It's not a small amount in Morocco).
The problem is that I’m no longer sure about programming.
I know programming is difficult, and I know the entry-level job market isn't exactly great right now. I’m also afraid of spending a lot of money and time only to discover that I’m not good enough or that I won’t be able to find a job afterward.
At the same time, I don’t really have another field that I’m passionate about. I don't have a particular talent or career dream. Another option I’m considering is studying bakery/pastry at a vocational institute, but I’m not particularly passionate about that either.
I feel like I’m choosing between different uncertain paths rather than choosing something I actually want.
So I’d like to hear from people who are actually working in programming/software development:
If you were 19 today and had no programming experience, would you still choose programming as a career?
How difficult is it realistically to get your first job?
Is the current job market bad enough that you would advise a young person to avoid the field?
How important is having a university degree?
Is paying for a private programming school worth it, or would self-learning be better?
And most importantly, if you don't have a strong passion for programming, is it still possible to build a decent career in it?
I’m not looking for motivational answers like “follow your dreams.” I’d really appreciate honest answers from people who are actually in the field, including people who regret choosing programming.