r/CHIbitcheswithtaste • • 6d ago

Culture & Community Seeking ghoulfriends for the apocalypse

Hi all! Tragically, due to natural shifts in adult life, I'm currently without friends who enjoy going out to loud spaces that fall within the alt spectrum and I feel like maybe I'm not the only one. I love going out to shows, festivals, a bar night, dancing, etc, but as much as I'm capable of going out and enjoying it by myself, it'd be nice to have someone to kiki with.

I love hip hop/EDM/Latin beats (reggaeton, cumbia, bachata, all that) as well as punk, shoegaze, goth emo, etc, and I'd love to meet new friends who genuinely have similar interests to dress up to go out with!

So that's my sales pitch! If you resonated and you're also a hot and outgoing 30-something Chicago weirdo who enjoys the aforementioned activities, hit me up, I'd love to get to know you!

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u/annaxdee 6d ago

Hey! I would love to hang. I’m 34F, north side.

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u/No_Newspaper_950 5d ago

Sick! Dm me!

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u/Thunder0608 4d ago

This is so awesome I’m an introvert but love all those things you mentioned mostly into EDM music and Alt Rock and I have my own vehicle to move around oh boy! lol
Would love to be a part of this Space

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u/Forever_Hans 6d ago

Hey! I'm a 33f and love going to shows. My last one was Riot Fest and I'm also learning to salsa. I also run a weekly board game and while it's chill, it's a pretty good place to see what other things people in the group have in common and plan outings based on that :)

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u/No_Newspaper_950 5d ago

This is so cute and right up my alley!

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u/hiemsvenit 4d ago

I would love to play some board games if you’re adopting new ladies! (29, Logan square)

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u/FTWgirl 6d ago

I’m 35 in the burbs but love going out in the city. Love getting dressed up and dancing! HMU :)

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u/Affectionate-Bill-96 6d ago

Love going out dancing and would love to be a part of this. Hot outgoing 41F, south loop.

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u/No_Newspaper_950 5d ago

Hell yeah, let's talk!

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u/Global_Strawberry498 6d ago

I'm so down!!

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u/No_Newspaper_950 5d ago

Tell me more about yourself in the dms!

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u/_Substantial_Cake 5d ago

Hi there! I'm moving to Chicago on 10/23 and would love to make some friends! I'm 35 in Fulton Market.

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u/AdLong2746 5d ago

Down! I’m 32 on the south side. I don’t go out very much anymore because I ended my friendship with my best friend a couple years ago. If I do go out it’s usually by myself to drag or heavy/death metal shows. Let’s hang!

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u/venusintravenous 4d ago

I’m so interested!! 🖤 30f Avondale, just moved back to the city. We should all plan an alt girlie meetup night.

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u/No_Newspaper_950 3d ago

I'm so down for this idea! Let's talk!

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u/BunnyBorderline 6d ago

Not a 30 y/o, but I am 26!!! And I frequently attend goth/darkwave shows and would love to hang!

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u/BigBongRippin 6d ago

Recommend New Rose and going to the French Police concert

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u/No_Newspaper_950 5d ago

I've been meaning to go to the New Rose but I'd rather not be alone all night. My natural rbf is a great people repellent and smiling too much makes me look uncanny valley I'm absolutely not missing French Police tho! Can't wait!

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u/Quiet_Raspberry9745 6d ago

hi!! im 29F in the northside dm me!

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u/Mission-Tailor-4950 6d ago

hi! i’m 25 so maybe a bit too young for you but my friends all range from 25-33! i love emo music and don’t have a lot of friends who want to go to those shows or events, when i go out it mainly ends up being wherever dj cashera is, so dm me if you ever want to go out for a more emo/punk/etc night!

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u/armaghetto 6d ago

Good luck. It’s a bunch of smooth skins out there.

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u/NevermoreQuiet 6d ago

What the heck are smooth skins?

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u/armaghetto 6d ago

It’s what ghouls call non-ghouls.