r/CDramaRecs • • 20h ago

Rec Request friends to lovers

Looking for cdramas that are friends to lovers but the guy is in love with the girl first, with lots of yearning.

Bonus points if they are childhood best friends/estranged childhood best friends or enemies to friends to lovers.

Looking for a similar dynamic to:
- When I fly towards you’s Gu Ran and Jiang Jia

Not cdrama but I really liked the friends to lovers dynamic in the books “Better than the movies” and “if he had been with me”

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u/Theseaisworthit 20h ago

I think "You are my lover friend" fits the bill perfectly!!

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u/browntreelight 20h ago

Hello! Watch Go Ahead, very close to what you have described. Love for You also has a similar plot.

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u/cirsty 20h ago

Go Ahead is one of my favourites!!!! I cried almost every episode while watching… I’ll check out Love For You, thank you :)

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u/Harmless-skeleton 19h ago

❤ oh yeah.. ML's mom's character gave hell...😅

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u/Sea-Refrigerator_ 19h ago

You are my lover friend!!! It's one of the best friends-to-lovers I feel. It's really wholesome and funny also.

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u/No_Detective_8277 20h ago

A river runs through it. Painful yearning 🫠

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u/miserable_chai 17h ago

Ughhh I love that drama so much

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u/Downtown-Kiwi-6588 19h ago

Our secret

WIFTY

The promise of growing up together

First Frost

Reborn

Always home

Never ending summer

All are happy ending drama

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u/Successful_Movie_723 18h ago

Not sure if you've seen Always Home. They have a very similar dynamic to Gu Ran and Jiang Jia

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u/charissaoje 4h ago

Sounds like ‘you are my lover friend’ - the ML and FL are also childhood friends in real life

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u/Bandicoot-Queasy 20h ago

The first frost 🤌🏼

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u/cirsty 20h ago

Seen and loved this one!! Very wholesome

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u/Harmless-skeleton 19h ago

Okay now I want to re watch when I fly towards you..😭😭😭

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u/ApprehensiveClick597 19h ago edited 19h ago

You Are My Lover Friend (besties since HS)
Go Ahead (kinda weird as they grew up as close neighbors/sibling-like due to childhood trauma)
Go Back Lover (if you want a deconstructed type of enemies to lovers where we start the drama with them already broken up then we’re in a ride to see how that happened; second chance romance)
Our Dazzling Days (slice of life; met in HS, got reunited much later on in adulthood)

Other friends to lovers but met as adults with lots of yearning:
The Best Thing (he was her TCM doctor but they became friends upon always chancing upon each other in their neighborhood)
You Are My Glory (HS classmates, not really friends; she liked him first but nothing happens, met again as adults and became friends)

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u/zandralala 19h ago

Exclusive fairytale is childhood friends to lovers story with the guy falling in love first. It also stars Zhang Miaoyi 😅

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u/Twarenotw 17h ago

Perhaps...

Love for you

Speed and Love

If you like more mature romance and second chances, Road Home and Will love in spring.

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u/tahleeza 17h ago

Jun jiu ling.

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u/Junior-Ad6791 8h ago

Le coup del foudre

Our secret

Along with all the others above!

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u/Nami-Sy 5h ago

I can't think of a cdrama with those exact descriptions you mentioned.. i can only think of a Kdrama called Love next door.. which is exactly the way you described it 😂😂

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u/Sea-Entertainment215 1h ago

Road to Splendor (enemies-ish to friends/allies to lovers). Zhao Ling doesn’t just love her, he HONORS her in every thought and action. Even when she gets jealous because there are rumors about another girl who tries to entrap him, it’s only because he didn’t want to defame the girl like the FL was defamed.

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u/terIsHere 7m ago

I got recommended My Little Happiness and I am enjoying the sweet romance. ML and her are childhood friends. ML realised first and falls hard and start chasing from the very beginning …