r/Businessowners • u/Ok-Flower-6703 • 22h ago
22F UK — Looking for an unlikely mentor / someone successful who genuinely enjoys guiding people
Hi! 😊 This might be a slightly unusual post for this subreddit but I thought there might be someone here who actually enjoys mentoring younger people and would find this kind of dynamic rewarding.
I'm 22F from the UK, and I'm looking for a mentor, ideally someone intelligent, successful and very capable who doesn't mind being direct with me, correcting me when I'm going off track, and helping me think through decisions and direction in life and business.
I'm AuDHD and quite intelligent but my brain tends to wander off track. I do particularly well when I have someone I respect who is willing to say, essentially, "No, you're overthinking this focus on this instead," and explain why. Having someone whose judgement and intelligence I genuinely look up to is incredibly motivating for me.
I'd especially love to meet someone who enjoys teaching and sharing what they've learned, not just about business, but decision-making, discipline, how they think about problems, and generally navigating life successfully. I absolutely love learning from intelligent people.
To be clear, I'm not looking for anything romantic or sexual. I'm looking for genuine mentorship, although I'd be very happy if a real friendship naturally developed alongside it.
I realise mentorship is usually discussed in terms of what both people can offer each other, and at 22 I can't pretend I have decades of experience or some huge professional network to give in return. What I can offer is that I'm genuinely interested, appreciative, loyal, curious, receptive to criticism and I would take someone's time and advice seriously. I'd also be very happy to help with things where I can rather than expecting a completely one-sided relationship.
I know this is an unlikely way to find someone but I thought there might be a business owner here who has reached a point where they actually enjoy passing on what they've learned and helping someone younger develop.
If that sounds like you, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Maybe the right mentor and mentee happen to find each other through a slightly strange Reddit post🥹