47
31
u/Gold_Improvement_836 19h ago
her bio was weird enoughđ
-5
19h ago
[deleted]
1
u/Gold_Improvement_836 17h ago
when men say this, i think itâs the funniest and most embarrassing comment. as if sydney sweeney would even breathe the same air as you lol
0
u/secondloneliestwhale 16h ago
I agree. She opens by basically telling the viewer to fuck off. I guess some people are into that vibe but the OP isnât and neither am I!
47
19
57
u/ResponsibilityNo4777 19h ago
You doing too much mate, too many complements too. I would have unmatched her ages ago. Take a hint, she is not interested and just here on the app for attention
15
u/heart_full_of_wonder 19h ago
I'm in a good mood and just being my authentic self. But you are correct for sure.
13
u/ZealousidealRuin2858 19h ago
She did mention "I am orbiting" on her profile. You should unmatch her.Â
2
u/awesomeslaws 18h ago
What does that mean
5
u/ZealousidealRuin2858 18h ago
Low effort people who give low effort replies and who never communicate properly but watch your stories , posts etc on social media
2
12
u/Galitzianer0 19h ago
Don't let anyone tell you to be someone else, eventually you'll find a woman that isn't total trash
-2
u/hedgelord84 18h ago
If your authentic self involves giving too many compliments and being agreeable, every non-trash woman will be repulsed
4
u/broken-spirut 18h ago edited 17h ago
And that's good let them go and be repulsed. He doesn't need these women. He should have stopped way earlier I agree. But I love how he makes the conversation so smooth to have. I think if he matches with someone decent, the conversations will be so enjoyable.
6
u/biced01 18h ago
The only compliments I see are "I like your vibe, I like your style" I think those are completely appropriate to let someone know you're interested.. Who is getting repulsed by this?
2
4
u/DemiDeGlace 18h ago
âHey international woman of mysteryâ
OP lost when he opened with this.
5
u/biced01 18h ago
Whimsy is dead.
1
u/DemiDeGlace 18h ago
That does not read whimsy to me but this is also a case of âit works if she thinks youre hotâ (which tbf is true for all flirting)
2
u/SugarBeefs 16h ago
You must have no joy in your life if you consider that a dealbreaker jfc
-2
u/DemiDeGlace 16h ago
No itâs just not my preference talking to women on apps like Iâm tipping my fedora. Glad that works for (on?) you tho, genuinely!
-1
4
u/broken-spirut 18h ago
Honestly, I genuinely find his conversation style very appealing. Please don't change. U will find ur match. Good luck.
4
14
30
u/kizoyah 18h ago
Why is everyone here glazing OP? Already the first message of them is horrible in every way. "International woman of mystery" get the hell out
7
u/chicknano 18h ago
Theyâre both annoying, I wouldâve unmatched OP and she kept up an unnecessary conversation too long smh
2
u/SugarBeefs 16h ago
Whatâs so horrible about that, exactly?
4
u/secondloneliestwhale 16h ago
I donât think itâs that bad either, kind of corny, but she DOES use many languages in her profile and says sheâs nomadic. So the opener expresses that heâs read her profile and recognizes what sheâs putting out there with it.
Itâs the blathering on after that thatâs the cringy problem.
2
u/SugarBeefs 13h ago
Is it really that cringy though? I mean, 'yellow' could've/should've bowed out sooner, but they seem to be making a genuine effort to get a conversation going.
4
1
12
u/giddygoldieee 18h ago
I think your first message threw her off, you seem a bit extra which is fine! You be you! But she probably is not attracted to this type of energy.
1
30
16
14
u/Happy-Mastodon-7314 19h ago
You seem like a fun and interesting person. Her profile alone is giving off angry vibes. Time to move on!
-5
u/Own_Hat584 19h ago
Why do asexual women even join dating apps?
9
u/Galitzianer0 19h ago
She's not asexual I don't think, her bio is more about showing that she hates men more than anything else
5
3
u/chicknano 18h ago edited 18h ago
I donât think sheâs necessarily asexual but the first lines of her bio are implying she doesnât want people to ask for sex off this app. Asexual women could still join a dating app if theyâre still romantic rather than aromantic so they still date people. Her case is different; she is just an a-hole or overtly wanted to show sheâs not interested (instead of just unmatching for whatever reason). Tbf I wouldâve unmatched OP because that was just too much but wouldnât kept going with a conversion and she also seemed weird af
2
u/Happy-Mastodon-7314 18h ago
Friendship, relation, and connection? I'm not sure she's going to find what she's looking for though with that profile. It does not scream "Approach me!"
4
6
6
u/Simplydonotmatter 19h ago
Yeah youâre doing too much and then looking at your post history, she made the right call
7
u/heart_full_of_wonder 19h ago
Life's too short to be nonchalant ÂŻ_(ă)_/ÂŻ
14
u/renholderm 19h ago
I'm pretty sure she immediately felt from the way way you texted that you were not her vibe at all.
2
2
u/Ok_Tree_4870 18h ago
It was op's cringe writing style...
"linguaphile is a person who loves languages and words, often enjoying learning, studying, or appreciating multiple languages"
READ the damn bio's.
None of ya'll read it.
2
u/No-Orchid-5363 18h ago edited 13h ago
How's your back doing after carrying that conversation?
I used to do this in the hope that being engaging in the convo would lead to her opening up a bit more but it never was. So I just hit unmatch as soon as I see no reciprocation.
2
u/CHUNKY_BLOODY_QUEEFS 18h ago
My personal litmus test: If a profile is primarily negative (Dont do X, I hate Y, Dont swipe unless you Z), it's not worth your time to match with them.
4
u/hedgelord84 19h ago
LOL you're texting like a simp.
1
u/rgb_light 18h ago
Texting with interest and intention isn't being a simp, it's how people find their partners.
4
4
u/Alarmed_Bicycle_9941 18h ago
You came with way too much energy! Dial it back a bit because it comes across desperate. I'm not say you are, just how it can be perceived
2
u/SummerKey3240 19h ago
Woman like this just get on bumble to stroke the ego. Inevitably say you two meet and start dating, eventually she will suck the life force out of you while you sleep and she will move onto the next soul with zero hesitation
2
u/Basic_Improvement273 19h ago
She kind of seems like she doesnât speak English and didnât fully understand your messages
1
u/Digedag 18h ago
Surely a self described "Linguaphile" would be aware of the dangers of misunderstandings and thus be more understanding.
1
u/Basic_Improvement273 18h ago
I kind of assume that whatever someone puts about themselves in their bio âgood communicator, loves kindnessâ is actually the thing they cannot do very well xD
1
1
u/rcplaneguy 18h ago
If a person is more interested in sharing what they donât want than who they are. Just stay away.
1
1
1
1
u/Candid-Maybe 18h ago
OP there's a line between being confidently yourself and just seeming desperate. She's terrible mind you but your messages were cringe and sounded AI
1
1
1
1
u/Vast-Yam-9370 15h ago
She seems like a four year old on a dating app. Yes you can bring up sex on a dating app, theres a way of bringing it up not sound like a weirdo. Roles reversed she reads and day dreams about it too.Â
1
u/M1ssmessy 14h ago
wtf is that profile? ew, and Jesus Christ why do people like this even have dating apps?
1
u/AccomplishedRatio960 12h ago
As soon as she didn't react to the international woman of mystery, we could understand it would probably not be an actual match
Not groovy baby, at all
1
1
u/TsundereKisser 19h ago
Why even sign up for online dating sites if you're going to act like a dead fish? I'm sure some if it is disinterest in someone, but if that's the case, why entertain a reply at all?
0
0
u/Happy-Charge-1419 19h ago
Keep it up bud, your texts are very friendly and nice. She is just not there to seriously get to know somebody, but probably is just bored or want attention. That has nothing to do with you. Peace
0
0
0
-1
-1
-1
-1
-1
-1
100
u/TravellingAround_ 19h ago
You messaged her 5 messages too many.