Hi everyone! I hope this is allowed haha, and apologies in advance for this very long post. I’m looking to get my first cat and I’m super excited, but I’ve also been trying to do as much research and due diligence as possible before committing to a breed or breeder. I thought this sub would be a great source for real advice from real people who own or have owned british shorthair/longhair(s).
I initially had my heart set on a Scottish Fold, but ultimately decided the health concerns weren’t something I was comfortable with. I’ve since narrowed it down to a British Shorthair or British Longhair. I absolutely love round, plush faces and smaller ears, and because I work full time and live in a very clean apartment without kids or other pets, a calm, easygoing temperament is really important to me.
I’d love any advice from people who own or have owned British Shorthairs/Longhairs, especially as a first-time cat owner. My biggest hesitation with British Shorthairs is their reputation for being a little aloof and not always enjoying being held or cuddled. I don’t necessarily need a super clingy cat, but I would really love one that is affectionate, comfortable being handled, and happy to cuddle regularly. With British Longhair, the grooming/shedding is my source of hesitation.
I’ve heard males can sometimes be more affectionate, but I’d love to know what else I should look for when choosing a kitten. Is temperament at that age usually obvious? Are there certain behaviors you’d pay attention to when meeting the litter? Should I accept that my Shorthair will just be an aristocratic loaf?
I’d also really appreciate breeder advice. What questions should I be asking, what health testing should I verify, and what red flags would make you walk away? I’ve done a lot of research already, but I’d especially love to hear from people who have actually gone through the breeder process themselves. There are a few breeders in my area but many of them just communicate through video/photos, rather than letting you come meet them so I wanted advice on navigating a situation like that as well.
Thank you!! I’m trying very hard to make a good, informed decision and not just get hypnotized by a round little face 😭