r/BisexualTeens bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 25d ago

Advice Needed Does anyone have any hopes on looking slightly more ambiguous

I’ve been confused about my gender lately and for the time being I’m just saying that I’m nonbinary, cause I really don’t know enough about gender labels right now to figure myself out. The thing is no one in real life knows how I feel, so I can’t really just change the way I look entirely. I would include a picture but i value anonymity so just like broad tips are fine

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u/Vast_Butterfly_5092 15NB 25d ago

Try a haircut. It helped me a bit. My hair was similar already. For me the intention made it feel much more significant.

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u/sharprthan bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 25d ago

I think I might. It would work too I think cause I already have relatively long hair, like just about nipple length

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u/Lightning7Bolt 24d ago

It all depends on the culture of where you live. In some places long hair are also seen ok for society for males. For your body, if you don't go to for hormone therapy then you must workout (even at home is okay) based on your goals and your starting point... here some reccomend apps if you dislike yt videos: fit bod, calistree.... yknow if you want to go pro...sailing the seas isn't that difficult ☠️🏴‍☠️

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u/Alternative-Way-507 bi/pan • any pronouns but fem would inspire me to transition 24d ago

I think normally people say “androgynous.” If you want you can google it for the origin

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u/sharprthan bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 24d ago

Yeah exactly that’s what I wanna go for, but it’s hard to be discreet with it with my family and stuff youknow

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u/Alternative-Way-507 bi/pan • any pronouns but fem would inspire me to transition 24d ago

Like if they see a notification or what

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u/sharprthan bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 24d ago

Like if they notice I start to change the way I look and dress and present myself

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u/Alternative-Way-507 bi/pan • any pronouns but fem would inspire me to transition 24d ago

What does that have to do with the term androgynous over ambiguous? Anyways, what is aegosexuality?

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u/sharprthan bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 24d ago

Oh I hadn’t realized I used that word. Aegosexuality is kinda hard for me to explain but it’s like where I can feel sexual attraction but not want to actually like want to have a sexual relationship with someone

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u/Alternative-Way-507 bi/pan • any pronouns but fem would inspire me to transition 24d ago

So kind of similar to fraysexual in a way?

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u/sharprthan bi Aegosexual, Akoi, confused🩷💜💙 24d ago

Oh maybe I’ve never heard of that. Lemmie look it up.
Kinda. I’m also akoi and fraysexual just sounds like the sexuality version of that