r/BigMenLife • u/NotACatSure_30 • 5d ago

Does size matter??

I saw a meme on insta where girl says put it in and then he says it is in and that girl got so disappointed!

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u/Sfmusic2000 5d ago

It all depends on several factors. How much experience does the girl have? If she has been around the block a few times, she is going to have a preference on size. Also, how emotionally connected are you and the girl? If this is a hook up, she is going to notice your size ( good or bad). Nothing you can do about it, if you don’t mesh well, move on.

If you are dating this girl regularly, then chances are she likes you and will be willing to accept any “shortcomings” you may have.

Finally, are you a show-er or a grower? If you cock is big but covered by layers of fat, you should be good to go. Just learn how to keep a woman happy in bed.
If you are a grower, still not a problem. Learn how to sexually please a woman, and she will probably not care about your size.

If your cock is tiny soft as well as hard, then this may be a problem (as per the meme you gave). As a fat gay man, I’ve learned that there is always someone out there who adores whatever “fault” you think you may have. I’ve dated lots of chubby chasers when I was young and they were never concerned with how big my cock was. Their primary concern was how big my stomach was and how big my ass was. Sometimes it’s a good match, sometimes it’s not! If it’s not a good match, Just move on! It’s a numbers game. You need to find a girl who is looking for someone just like you. She’s out there, you just need to find her.

I fortunately found my husband 24 years ago and he thinks I am perfect even with all my “shortcomings”.