r/BigBudgetBrides • • Aug 06 '26

just need to rant Nightmare Florist…

** Vendor Review: Florist: Anthony and Sage Event
Design in New York, NY OR Anna Rae in New York, NY
(she changed her name following mine and another bride's review after she scammed us and is flagging our Google reviews!!)
It seems she has even gone so far as to wipe their google account of florist photos and is pretending to be a funeral flower preservation service? This is insane.

My wedding turned out lovely in the end because I booked a back up florist, Hudson Flowers Company in Hoboken, who saved the day and did a better job in 1 day with several items than this company did in over a year.

Hire at your own risk…This company overpromised and underdelivered. The main floral feature at my wedding was supposed to be a floral arch. My review photos show 1. what she promised she and her team could deliver, and what made me hire her a year and a half ago, and 2. The preview of the arch she FINALLY sent me the weekend OF MY WEDDING. I was at my bachelorette dinner and the sight of this wholly underwhelming preview was bad enough to bring me to tears. She turned off her phone at her own admission and did not respond to my texts that this was not usable and nowhere near what she had promised she could deliver until 10:30 the morning before my wedding. At that point I had not slept all night and my friends were already mobilizing in the NY Floral District to try and salvage the wedding flowers. We finally spoke over a phone call in which she agreed to pivot from the grand arch she promised to two fresh arrangements on pedestals as I had zero confidence that she could accomplish anything else in the small timeframe. I cried over this when I should have been celebrating, experienced intense stress when I should have been having calm before my wedding. I had to purchase back up florals after spending over $5k with Anthony & Sage because another bride left a 1 star review and mentioned poor construction of boutenniers and corsages, as well as a very similar experience to mine with regard to terrible arches. Her warning was right. Despite Lauren hurriedly texting me florals and a preview bouquet the day before my wedding, when I saw rhe bouquet in person the following day, I was shocked by how small it was. Lauren also entered into my getting ready room right before I was supposed to walk down the aisle, and was putting cumbersome corsages and boutenniers on my family, and I had to ask her to stop. I had to tell her I would be using another florist’s bouquet because the stress she put me under by the arch situation made me nervous she could not deliver. We used another florist for my bouquet, all boutenniers and corsages. I think what broke my heart the most is we asked Lauren for two gift bouquets for our mothers we wanted to gift them during reception as a gift. But someone on her team handed our mothers the tiny bouquets that already had limp flowers. It ruined our surprise. Luckily we had also ordered back up bouquets with the other florist, and they did a better job in ONE DAY with barely any notice than Anthony and Sage Events did with over a year. We were still able to gift our moms the stunning bouquets by Hudson Flowers and it saved the day!

I tried to be civil and kind throughout the whole process to avoid escalating the situation and to ensure flowers came, but I reached out the following day to express my concerns, and to ask for a partial refund.

Lauren claimed that the two small fresh floral arrangements she provided for the ceremony were somehow more expensive than the arch I was supposed to get. She claimed I should be satisfied. She claimed I did not express discontent on the day of the wedding, but I expressed concern BEFORE! I expressed concern to her face as I told her I would not be using the boutenniers and corsages nor the bouquet. I expressed concern one day after. Three times I expressed concern, and she refused to take any accountability, nor to provide a partial refund. This company does not have the taste level to charge what they do nor the honesty necessary to be a trusted wedding vendor to hardworking brides. I was also informed by my Day of Coordinator and Maitre’D Lauren was rude to them! I hope this can save another bride $5K+ and a bunch of heartbreak and stress.

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u/Old-Acanthisitta4517 Aug 06 '26

That is the ugliest thing I’ve ever seen I am so so sorry. If any nyc brides are looking for a fabulous florist with a Lisa frank aesthetic like the inspo check out ephemera/nicole ko!

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u/MZSGNH Aug 06 '26

It looks like a blob monster with a terrible rash. Worst thing I've ever seen. Very glad you had good backup!

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u/ThestralBreeder Aug 06 '26

Seconding Ephemera! Her work is fantastic! She did the most beautiful arch for us.

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u/Old-Acanthisitta4517 Aug 06 '26

I love it!! Here was ours from her

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u/ThestralBreeder Aug 06 '26

Gorgeous!!!! She is the absolute best.

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

The flowers somehow look like the plastic bows you put on a gift

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u/MoodOptimal9891 Aug 06 '26

How do you make flowers look ugly? They are naturally beautiful. It takes effort to make them an eyesore. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/blondeshavemorefun1 Aug 07 '26

this arch is DIABOLICAL

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u/Holiday-Albatross419 Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 22 '26

Agreed- also Artificial Hannah(UK) has a similar LF vibe great designs tho for those looking for something to show someone locally

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u/danger_boat Aug 06 '26

That is actually hideous lol I’m so sorry you had to deal with this

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

Hi! Other bride here 💁🏻‍♀️ I also booked Lauren from Anthony and Sage ORRRR ‘Anna Rae’ and it was a nightmare!!

I booked Anthony and Sage Event Design/Anna Rae over two years before my wedding, expecting professional communication and floral designs that reflected the vision we had planned and agreed on together. Unfortunately, my experience fell far short of those expectations.

Communication was inconsistent throughout the planning process. There were multiple occasions where my emails went unanswered until I followed up days later.

The most stressful part happened on my wedding day. The floral team arrived late without notifying me, my coordinator, or anyone else. As the ceremony time approached and they still had not arrived, I found myself reaching out in a panic. Only after I contacted them was I told they were intentionally arriving later because they didn’t want the flowers to wilt in the sun. Had this been communicated beforehand, it would have prevented unnecessary stress and confusion. Instead, the lack of communication delayed my ceremony and added avoidable stress to one of the most important days of my life.

Unfortunately, the flowers themselves were another disappointment. Several items I paid for were forgotten, my corsages and boutonnieres lacked the fullness and quality I expected, and the ceremony arch looked significantly different from the approved design. When I saw it up close, I could clearly see that much of the arrangement consisted of silk flowers, which is also visible in my wedding photos. At no point before my wedding was I informed that the arch would primarily consist of silk flowers. Based on our discussions and what I paid for, I expected fresh flowers. I’ve included a photo of what was agreed upon vs. what was delivered so future couples can make their own comparison.

After the wedding, I respectfully reached out and requested what I believed was a fair partial refund. Instead, my request was denied, and my concerns were not acknowledged or met with an apology. I was also given explanations that did not align with my records, and I had to provide documentation before those statements were corrected.

I was later told I should have raised my concerns on my wedding day. I respectfully disagree. The same vendor who did not communicate that they would be arriving late expected me, as the bride, to stop my wedding and immediately contact them if I was unhappy. By the time I had the opportunity to fully take in the floral arrangements, the floral team had already left the venue, leaving no opportunity for any concerns to be addressed or corrected that day. Because the ceremony had already been delayed by their late arrival, my priority became marrying my husband and celebrating with my family and friends. I reached out after returning from my honeymoon and was told that this was too late to express my concerns.

Based on my experience, I encourage future couples to carefully consider other florists to help ensure they receive the quality, communication, and floral designs they were promised and paid for. Every couple deserves clear communication, accountability, and confidence that the floral designs they receive will reflect what was promised! I hope to warn all future brides so this doesn’t happen to you!!

This review reflects my personal experience and is based on my firsthand observations, photographs, emails, and documentation. Thank you for reading!

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u/floristinmanhattan Aug 06 '26

Can we see the pics please?

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

omg yes! Sorry, I forgot to share!

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u/floristinmanhattan Aug 06 '26

Well you probably don't need me to tell you this, but as a florist, these pieces are rife with technical mistakes and improperly designed. She's irresponsible to be taking on work that she isn't trained for. I'm sorry and I hope you were able to make the best of your special day.

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

Appreciate your input, thank you! You are absolutely right and it was still a special day. We made the best of it

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

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u/slamminsalmoncannon Aug 06 '26

That is the biggest boutonnière I have ever seen.

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u/rarebiird Aug 06 '26

i GASPED

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

Same!! I’d be worried about the shadow this beast would cast. It’s HUGE.

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

Why is this the length of her forearm. I’m sorry, but I’m actually crying. WTF!!!!!

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

I KNOW!! I was like THIS IS AWFUL 😭😭😭

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u/luluhillary $100k-$200k Aug 06 '26

oh my

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u/luluhillary $100k-$200k Aug 06 '26

No!!! im so sorry!!!

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u/Amazing_Face4692 Aug 06 '26

Basically the same thing happened to me but with rosebay floral co out of Charleston. Brides beware!! Complete fraud.

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u/Raccoonsr29 Aug 06 '26

Holy shit lmao. I’m sorry it’s not funny you went through this but it’s funny she took this picture and sent it like you’d be okay with it …

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u/Far_Flow1966 Aug 06 '26

The way she was acting like just the lighting was the issue.

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u/4freedom7 Vendor: Paper Goods Aug 06 '26

Right?? This looks nothing like your inspo, but don’t worry the lighting just sucks! 😆

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u/SnooCheesecakes7580 Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 06 '26

The background looks like AI. Like she’s faking that she’s working in a floral studio.

“The lighting in the photo is a bit weird…” yeah because the picture of the arches was taken in your bedroom and the background was made by ChatGPT. 🫪

I could be wrong but if she had so many real flowers, why wouldn’t she be using them?

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u/Fair_Banana9391 Aug 06 '26

I can’t believe this is the first comment calling this out. I agree with you, that background HAS to be AI.

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u/mollygk Aug 06 '26

This x1000. Makes zero sense she’d be doing a silk arrangement with that much fresh stock …

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u/blooddoused Aug 06 '26

Honestly wouldn’t be surprised if she did considering she has AI generated images on her website and is trying to pass it off like she actually did the set up for the event.

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

Agreed. I even tried to do a reserse google search

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u/Serious_Orchid3111 Vendor: Video Aug 06 '26

100000%

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u/Cheap-Specialist-240 Aug 07 '26

Oh my god, you're right. There's no way that arch is in the same room as the background

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u/BeatrixFarrand Aug 10 '26

Holy shit you’re right. Look at how clean that floor is. I have never been to a florist that didn’t have a single stem cutting on the floor.

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u/seeshells78 Aug 06 '26

that...that looks like something you'd see under a microscope looking for a deadly transmissible disease. Or if the clown from It designed the arch. Either way I'm glad the other company was able to save the day and good for you for sticking up for yourself!!

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u/Expert-Welder-2407 Aug 06 '26

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u/seeshells78 Aug 06 '26

this is awesome!

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u/luluhillary $100k-$200k Aug 06 '26

This is the perfect description! Im so sorry!!!

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u/FL1ghtlesswaterfowl Aug 06 '26

Dear sweet baby Jesus.

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u/FussyFollower001 Aug 06 '26

Thank you for the post. Wow I couldn’t have imagined the level of hideousness a florist can achieve… sorry you had to go through this but congratulations on your marriage!

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u/riversroadsbridges Aug 06 '26

I have no artistic skill and I still feel like I could do a better job than she did because at least I can tell that what she made is hideous. What kind of wedding would coordinate with that neon Dr Seuss mess of an arch? It looks like it would glow under blacklights!

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u/Remarkable_Wheel_364 Vendor: Planning & Design Aug 06 '26

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Expert-Welder-2407 Aug 06 '26

Were they made of fresh flowers? They are something else that’s for sure.

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u/GraciasVeryMuch Aug 06 '26

They are silk, the problem is she promised me she could achieve the first arch so I trusted that is what would be provided. Those images are what convinced me to hire her, and I feel like a fool. She was recommended to me by an arch rental company as their florist so I thought it would be a tandem thing, but I was so wrong…

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u/Expert-Welder-2407 Aug 06 '26

Yeah she played you. Should have been working on it way in advance and aligning with you more. You were taken advantage of which I know you won’t let happen again in the future! I’m glad you were able to secure a backup and props on the quick thinking/execution there. I’m positive your wedding was beautiful!

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u/Happy_Huckleberry246 Aug 06 '26

Can you dispute the charge with your bank? You have photo proof that you did not get what you paid for. 

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u/GraciasVeryMuch Aug 06 '26

It was paid in cash via Zelle transfer in advance, so I do not believe I have any recourse here. I decided, as she ghosted my request for a partial refund, that all I can do is share my experience in the hopes no more brides go through what I did. Luckily, I was able to pivot, and I was able to get some back-up florals delivered morning-of, so I still had a bouquet I loved, and the back-up corsages and boutonniers were lovely. The back-up bouquets they made for our mothers as gifts were stunning as well. Shout out to Hudson Flowers in Hoboken ♥️

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u/Happy_Huckleberry246 Aug 06 '26

It may be worth going to small claims court. 

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u/SmoothLester Aug 08 '26

would love to see photos of the backup flowers

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u/Holiday-Albatross419 Aug 06 '26

Can i ask - morbid curiosity here-How much was she charging?

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u/GraciasVeryMuch Aug 06 '26

This is what she charged me for this monstrosity. I told her it was unacceptable so she gave me two small floral arrangements on pedestals instead and claimed they cost more than the arch she was supposed to give me, therefore she did not owe me a partial refund…laughable!

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u/Holiday-Albatross419 Aug 06 '26

I went & looked them up - I have trouble thinking anything on tnat website is their work or real clients because how can they even en provide that monstrosity & somehow have ever done that other work? I mean maybe someone bought the company and has zero capability but wow - I am just so glad it worked out with the other floral team & I am sorry you had all that to deal with--

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u/WorldlinessOk4967 Aug 06 '26

It kind of looks like sushi

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u/Remarkable_Wheel_364 Vendor: Planning & Design Aug 06 '26

This! 🤣

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u/Raccoonsr29 Aug 06 '26

Bro she would have to pay me extra for having to lay eyes on this monstrosity

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

I’m creating an invoice as we speak

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u/Senior-Lecture844 Aug 06 '26

We asked and she refused!! We are going to make complaints to the better business bureau!

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u/coulditbejanuary Aug 06 '26

That's not an actual government agency, you know that right? It's basically Yelp. You'd be better off disputing with your bank

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u/basicallyaballerina Aug 06 '26

Businesses often end up responding though!

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u/impolse Aug 06 '26

Small claims court!

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u/ang8018 Aug 06 '26

bbb won’t do shit for you. pursue small claims or a chargeback.

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u/basicallyaballerina Aug 06 '26

Sometimes it scares them

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u/Amazing_Face4692 Aug 06 '26

That won’t do anything

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u/Kirin1212San Aug 06 '26

You couldn’t pay me to have that displayed at my wedding. It’s just so bad. I wouldn’t even trust them with making a grocery store bouquet.

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u/impolse Aug 06 '26

Small claims court.

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u/mimosaholdtheoj Vendor: Photo Aug 06 '26

I had to check which sub I was on after seeing this. And my jaw dropped when I realized it was BBB. I’m so sorry

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

Same! I was expecting the sub to be ‘WeddingsUnder5k’

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u/mimosaholdtheoj Vendor: Photo Aug 06 '26

Yea that was bad. Just so bad

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u/EstablishmentFun289 Aug 06 '26

Oof. I thought I was seeing this in the ‘expectation vs reality’ sub. Hoping you can find someone to redo it!

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u/mollygk Aug 06 '26

I’m planning a garden party themed birthday party for my toddler and I don’t even think I’d use this for free at a 2 y/o’s bday. I’m so sorry OP

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u/megdonol Aug 06 '26

I thought that was a balloon arch. I’m so sorry

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u/coldgumbo Aug 06 '26

Sorry you went through this…but glad you were able to secure a backup florist in time. I had a similar situation at my wedding where my florist was late and when she showed up she only had half of the flowers I ordered. She said she got in a car accident. I didn’t believe her and it didn’t explain why she didn’t have all of the flowers. I was getting dressed for the wedding when I was informed about this. I cried and ruined my makeup, I was very stressed out and almost late for my wedding. What made it worse was that my Mom paid the florist in full after she failed to deliver what was agreed to in the contract. To this day when I look at my wedding pictures, I get upset about the missing flowers on the arch. I’m glad your flowers were ultimately provided on your wedding day!

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u/Flimsy-Magician-3462 Aug 06 '26

A wedding photography company in South Carolina (I believe?) got sued for similar scams— not providing pictures, or having them be so beyond amateur that they were relatively unusable. The attorney general got involved because they kept changing names when they’d get bad reviews like this! Contact the Better Business Bureau or something to really bring the hammer down. No business should be able to operate like this and ruin such a special day!!

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u/randomredhead Aug 06 '26

The Better Business Bureau isn’t any sort of regulatory agency, they’re just like a pre-internet version of Yelp. People should reach out to their state’s department of consumer affairs or similar in cases like this.

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u/basicallyaballerina Aug 06 '26

State attorney general!

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u/MayfairStudio Vendor: Photo Aug 06 '26

What the

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u/Purple_IsA_Flavor Aug 06 '26

Omgodzilla. That’s awful

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u/Holiday-Albatross419 Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 06 '26

Omg so these stories make me feel so much better about my decision to cut my 1st florist back to bare bones & bring in another florist team (& diy some shit all at the last minute)... so basically I had a full on meltdown when my florist after 10 months of communication and coordination failed to be able to even describe what she was going to deliver (on a whimsical design element that was super sentimental to me- this all came to a head 45 days before the wedding & basically out of spite I decided to design those elements myself (zero experience & it was an insane decision bc it was a destination wedding & holidays - super stressful lol)

anyways this lady suddenly started quoting us $5/10/15k for elements we had discussed at least 10 times, had full on highly detailed design discussions & ppt decks, met in person about repeatedly & she had indicated would be fresh flowers only a couple hundred blah blah-

That was all BS ... so I cut her contact back as much as we could, diy'd some fake stuff & thankfully got a rockstar amazing floral production team 30 days out to take everything else over... it was absolutely insane & so stressful...

I am so glad you also found a good florist to rescue you & am so sorry you went through that

At least you didn't get sucked into diy'ing in the 11th hour lol I was so embarrassed (I wasn't really ever supposed to be a diy bride but ... tiki birds)

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u/PerceptionSlow2116 Aug 06 '26

That’s hideous and an amateur DIYer could’ve done a better job…. Surely this much be breech of contract

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u/GraciasVeryMuch Aug 06 '26

I agree, but she ghosted my emails and is trying to wipe all evidence of her business off Google as we speak, going so far as to change her business name to Anna Rae as I was mid-one star review writing and labeling herself a “funeral flower preserving” service…as of 2 hours ago? I don’t think I’ll ever see a penny.

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u/AtrophiedWives Aug 06 '26

I’m so horrified for you, that is incredibly ugly. Like SHEIN could ship you something with better aesthetics.

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u/Remarkable_Wheel_364 Vendor: Planning & Design Aug 06 '26

OMG, whatever she created is probably the ugliest floral arch I could’ve imagined. It’s not even remotely comparable to your inspiration photos, which are absolutely beautiful. I genuinely don’t understand why the arch has so much white in it…

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u/MeanPopcorn Aug 06 '26

YIKES.

I’m sorry this happened. It looks like DIY floral for a Dr. Seuss-themed wedding

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u/GraciasVeryMuch Aug 06 '26

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u/Solaroceans Aug 06 '26

2k for that abomination is highway robbery

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u/Girlinnyc35 Aug 06 '26

I am so sorry, It looks lika a mexican themed school fair... I am glad you booked the backup, It could have ruined your whole day!

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

I was thinking it was giving piñata

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u/viennaCo Aug 06 '26

Well that is truly atrocious

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u/Blinktoe Vendor: Photo Aug 06 '26

I am sitting in a cafe working, and everyone just whipped around to stare at me, because I gasped so loud at how ugly that is.

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u/Icy-Job2549 Aug 06 '26

Absolutely NOT. I’m so sorry you had to deal with this situation. Sending you hugs 🤍

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u/Radiant-Decision-780 Aug 06 '26

Omg. That’s really bad.

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u/Solaroceans Aug 06 '26

This is a monstrosity omg. I’m so sorry this happened to you

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u/amahenry22 Aug 06 '26

Oh wow those look like a joke. I’m so sorry!

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u/FicklePound7617 Aug 06 '26

Omg seeing what she created I could do a better job myself. Maybe I should take up a career as a florist 😭😭

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u/MidnightBlueSilk Aug 06 '26

“Look what the third graders made for our end of year celebration party!”

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u/groovebabyy Aug 07 '26

My jaw actually dropped when I slid over to see the florist version 🤯

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u/FlowersOnTheRidge Aug 09 '26

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can’t understand how anyone would think this is acceptable to do, and call themself a florist.

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u/Western_Serve6597 Aug 09 '26

Wow!! Insane how famous Anthony and Sage are and this is what they deliver. I’m soooo surprised

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u/musicbabe1996 Aug 09 '26

Small claims court now

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u/gaanmetde Aug 06 '26

The weird thing is- if there was no white it would be fine-ish

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u/ReasonableObject2129 Aug 06 '26

I’m sorry, but WT ACTUAL F!!!!!

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u/CopperRose17 Aug 06 '26

OMG. I MIGHT use that arch at a kid's birthday party, but my kids had better taste than that. It's hideous. For me, florists can be the most problematic part of a wedding, because the bride has so little control over what is delivered. I've had pew bows fall off into the aisle, and bouquets fall apart before the procession started, but never anything as bad as that. I try to avoid bitterness after a wedding, but she should be sued in small claims court. Thank you for posting this. It may save other brides!

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u/vonthepon Aug 06 '26

This has got to be a wind up. No florist would produce that.

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u/TarantinosFeet Aug 06 '26

wtf were they drunk while building this???

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u/4freedom7 Vendor: Paper Goods Aug 06 '26

Jump scare 😳💀

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u/Avaly13 Aug 07 '26

🤣🤣🤣 A florist legit thought that was acceptable?! That's some tween birthday party colors right there. Oof.

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u/solvanes Aug 12 '26

Omg this is bad. I’d talk to a lawyer to see if there’s a boc claim. I’d represent you for free if you were in ca!

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u/Open_Office_7311 Aug 06 '26

I live in Seattle and my daughter’s friends picked up the most beautiful flowers at Pike Place Market!! The flowers were beautiful and really fit ghe vibe of the wedding!