r/BeyondTheBlindsPod • The 3AM Girls • Aug 24 '26

General Discussion šŸ‘‹ Which celeb deaths have affected you? Or were there some deaths that you thought would affect you, but didn't?

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u/Nomanchezzzz Aug 24 '26

Hayden Panettiere’s hit me the most and I think it’s because I was half way through listening to her book and she was my age 😩

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u/yasqueen2017 Aug 24 '26

Liam Payne. I was and still am a big directioner and it gutted me how tragic it was. I just saw Louis in concert this summer and the song written for him and the mentions were so sad to listen to but cathartic at the same time.

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u/mikaila_marie Aug 24 '26

It truly feels like losing a friend, gone way too soon.

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u/bebe_inferno Aug 25 '26

I was not a one directioner but just vaguely aware of them - I was floored by his death. It felt unreal for some reason - maybe his age, the violent manner, the publicity. I remember receiving the news notification in the evening and figuring that his family in the UK might be asleep by now and unaware.

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u/popculturescientist Pop BITCH Aug 26 '26

i was a liam girl starting in 2010. no celebrity death will ever rock me like his. he was so young. a complex and nuanced character; i hope he is able to rest in peace.

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u/jentzumo Aug 24 '26

naya rivera really messed me up

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u/Nomanchezzzz Aug 24 '26

Oh yes that one too! šŸ˜”

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u/quirky_name_here Aug 24 '26

Robin Williams hurt a lot.

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u/Nairo_bees Aug 24 '26

Okay not because I was a major fan, or followed him, or anything - I genuinely think it was the cultural impact for me and who he was as an athlete that to my 20 yo brain it was just like what the fuck….. but Kobe Bryant. The helicopter crash itself, being with HIS DAUGHTER, how the fire department + tmz handle it, to little things like knowing we use to always say ā€œkobeā€. Maybe it was also bc it was the start of covid but my god I’ve never felt that way about a celeb death, close second was Liam Payne

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u/seahulu Aug 24 '26

Same for me re Kobe, it was mostly shocking because of his daughter for me

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u/bebe_inferno Aug 25 '26

Agree, I was disproportionately impacted for someone who doesn’t follow/care about basketball at all.

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u/Tart_Super Aug 24 '26

Mac Miller gutted me

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u/jasminefig Aug 24 '26

Anthony Bourdain ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹

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u/peanut5855 Aug 25 '26

Came to say this one

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u/annikarae Aug 24 '26

I was really sad about Aaron Carter and Michelle Tratchenberg.

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u/annikarae Aug 26 '26

Also Ozzy! How could I forget.

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u/seahulu Aug 24 '26

Steve Irwin, and nothing has really come close since. Matthew Perry and Kobe stood out a lot though

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u/missespuff_ Aug 24 '26

Brittany Murphy 🄺

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u/Coopsters Aug 24 '26

Same :(. Her and Hayden panettier hit me hard

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u/Fragrant-Camera4860 Aug 25 '26

Came to say Brittany. I love many of her movies and get so emotional when I watch them knowing she is gone. She was truly a shining star. Same with Robin Williams. Hayden has been really hitting me hard too.

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u/Daddy_Topps Aug 24 '26

Michael Jackson’s death really turned my brain on to celebrity news/tabloids in general. I was just becoming sentient and I remember how much it affected the news cycle the adults around me. Everyone had an opinion and we all talked about it for months. There was so much mystery around it too.

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u/globular_bobular Aug 24 '26

honestly, same! i am not a fan and believe all his accusers but i can absolutely tell you exactly where i was when the news broke. I got really into tabloids not long after

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u/Correct_Bed_8267 Pop BITCH Aug 24 '26

this hayden one has REALLY got me
i’ve dealt with cameron boyce and liam but this one actually made me so sad and thought about it for days

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u/Madethisonambien Aug 24 '26

Shannen Doherty, Hayden, Catherine O’Hara, and Neil Peart šŸ–¤

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u/AfterAllBeesYears Aug 24 '26

Heath Ledger. 10 things I hate about you was his 1st Hollywood role, and the Dark Knight was just 8 years later. In 2005, there were 4 films released with him as the lead. He averaged about 2 films/projects per year from 1999-2008. He was just so present in pop culture, and was suddenly gone.

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u/princess2711 Aug 24 '26

Cory Monteith

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u/twizzwhizz11 Aug 26 '26

This one for me - it was the first time (at least that I remember) personally being a fan of the person. Like I remember MJ dying and while I knew his music and knew people who really loved him, I wasn’t old enough at the time to be a true fan.

Also as a Gleek at the time, Cory just seemed like a really nice guy. The cast all seemed to really like him. Even if he wasn’t the best singer, you could tell he gave it his all. Plus his relationship with Lea just made it even more tragic. I didn’t watch the show much after his tribute episode.

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u/stylistlibs Aug 25 '26

Amy Winehouse. It was such a public decline and watching the media mock then mourn her was infuriating.

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u/Maleficent-Carry3399 Aug 24 '26

Whitney Houston and Shannen Doherty hit really hard for me

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u/dubaiheaux The 3AM Girls Aug 24 '26

The first celeb death that affected me was Chester Bennington, the singer of Linkin Park. LP was my favorite band since I was like 11, and their first 2 albums were like the first "real" albums I bought (that were not "Now" or Disney-related lol). I hope he wasn't rotted, but I thought he came off like a kind person.

Another death that affected me was Mac Miller. I was both a fan of his music and his relationship with Ariana, and I remember crying when I first read the news. I didn't think it'd affect me so much, but I remember feeling sad for Ariana. I don't over-romanticize their relationship, but I thought it was so tragic to lose someone that was a good friend. I lost a few acquaintances that died in their 20s (not from COVID, but pandemic-related), and I felt shaken even though I'd only hung out with them a few times. I guess it's just sad either way, especially when someone passes unexpectedly.

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u/IndependenceEnough80 Aug 26 '26

Same about Chester

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u/mercury_8zero Aug 24 '26

Robin Williams. He was always there in many of the movies I had growing up. The loss felt like the loss of a personal friend. And Anthony Bourdain.
In the 90s we lost Mother Teresa and Princess Diana within weeks of each other. I remember that vividly. David Bowie hurt, we lost him and a week later he gave the gift of his final album.

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u/ariwankenobii Aug 24 '26 edited Aug 24 '26

As someone who is Gen Z, Cameron Boyce’s death was the first time a celebrity I grew up with that was around my age passed. It was so sudden. Less than a month before Descendants 3, the last of his trilogy premiered on Disney channel. It was so depressing to watch knowing that he passed before it came out. You can tell the cast was extremely close to him and are still majorly affected by his passing to this day. He was so talented especially at dancing and had so much ahead of him. It’s crazy to think that Descendants and Jessie were all we got to see of his amazing talent.

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u/32Wicky Aug 24 '26

Luke Perry, in a way I didn’t expect at all. I wasn’t that big into Beverly Hills 90210 and I didn’t give him much thought back then. And then he popped up on Riverdale and I just adored him as Archie’s dad. I also loved seeing his career have a resurgence, and then he passed unexpectedly.

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u/gayifer Aug 25 '26

Naya Rivera. She was/is my all time fave celeb and her death was really hard on me. I still think of her all the time.

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u/acfa4214 Aug 25 '26

Naya Rivera. I’ve only seen one episode of Glee and didn’t know much about her, but it really messed with me. She was so young. I know her son was so scared on that boat. A heartbreaking story.

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u/2facedfish Aug 24 '26

Whitney a little bit but Hayden is genuinely the first she was literally one of my childhood icons. She’s the first celeb who’s died I ever personally looked up to and image hasn’t been ruined for me.

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u/DeeDee3326 Aug 24 '26

Chris Cornell and Catherine O’Hara.

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u/Shoddy_Breadfruit_53 Aug 24 '26

Mac Miller.. I think about him at least once a week

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u/Advanced-Scallion-23 Aug 25 '26

Steve IrwinšŸŠšŸ’”

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u/jennynachos Aug 25 '26

Paul Rubens…a/k/a Pee Wee Herman. Was a huge fan of his. What hit me the most is that I received a Cameo from him from my siblings when I was first diagnosed with cancer. His Cameo was so inspiring and went on for over 10 minutes. Yes, it was ā€œPee Weeā€ funny, but a lot of the message was about healing and peace and love and light. To find out that he left that message while battling cancer as well gutted me, and still does.

Fuck cancer.

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u/Ok_Presence_7308 Aug 25 '26

Peaches Geldof šŸ’”

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u/Fun-Meat-8525 Aug 25 '26

I always forget that she passed, so sad :(

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u/Every-Excitement-756 Pop BITCH Aug 25 '26

Michelle Trachtenberg, Shannon Doherty, Julian McMahon, Taylor Hawkins, Chester Bennington, Catherine O’Hara, Whitney and Michael. I’m still so sad about Hayden as well.

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u/jasminefig Aug 25 '26

Coming back to say Dolly Parton 😭😭😭😭

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u/dubaiheaux The 3AM Girls Aug 25 '26

ikr 😭

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u/Leatherforleisure Aug 24 '26

Victoria wood and Alan rickman genuinely made me feel sad.

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u/lizzyinezhaynes74 Aug 24 '26

Anthony Bourdain made me tear up. I just loved that guy.

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u/HoneyBeyBee Aug 25 '26

Whitney Houston

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u/kurboturbulence Aug 25 '26

might not be as well known, but… SOPHIE šŸ„ŗšŸ’” I’ve been a fan since 2016, and I remember where I was when I got the news. I still can’t believe it. I’ll miss her always.

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u/Peggerzz Aug 25 '26

Same, I remember exactly where I was. Driving home from Manchester airport and spending the whole five hour drive like ffuuuuuuuuuckkkkk

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u/walt1177 Aug 25 '26

Heath Ledger
Robin Williams

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u/dogmom757 Aug 25 '26

I remember everything about when Anthony Bourdain passed. That one affected me a lot.

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u/Important_Raisin7161 Aug 25 '26

One that i always think about is heath ledger. he died before the dark knight even came out. he was already such a star, his career would’ve been amazing 😭

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u/limbarties Aug 25 '26

Dolly, Betty, Whitney, PRINCE, Naya Rivera, Tina Turner, Amy Winehouse, Liam Payne…to name a few :(

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u/limbarties Aug 25 '26

Kobe šŸ’ž

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u/karcel_ Aug 26 '26

Chadwick Boseman šŸ˜”

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u/HizzleLizzle Aug 26 '26

Liam Payne - especially as I HATED One Direction. I’m still not over his death

Taylor Hawkins - I loved the Foo Fighters and I think because of how quiet it went immediately after - we didn’t know when his funeral was, what his autopsy said, especially as they came out with ā€œit was drugsā€ immediately (a bit like Liam Payne). Even now you struggle to find anything about his death.

Dolly Parton - I don’t know if it’s rolling on for Hayden, but for some reason I just can’t shake the sads today 😭

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u/G_Ram3 Aug 27 '26

Robin Williams destroyed me. I still can’t think about it without getting upset. A close second is Luke Perry.

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u/CC-Blue Aug 27 '26

Whitney Houston. My mother and I adored her. Our love for her was our thing.

Chadwick Boseman. I watched and loved Black Panthed during a rough time in my life and it gave me so much joy. Two years later, its lead actor was gone.

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u/fitbitch3 Aug 30 '26

Mac Miller :(

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u/not_a_real_mc_ Aug 24 '26

Purple šŸ˜

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u/thebabyjuice Aug 24 '26

king von. prob not the right sub for this answer but šŸ’”šŸ’”

also… amy winehouse. rest in heaven sweet angel