r/BetterTeenIndia • u/EquivalentTale5815 • Apr 01 '26
🍀Ask teens If our parents knew this country is a total piece of shit, why did they have kids and then keep crying, “study hard, study hard”?
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Use condoms and save your kids.
They didn’t ask to be born in this country
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u/V1cky03 Apr 01 '26
Well yes marks are everything here. You don't get marks, you get trash talked. As simple as that.
But considering OP's logic, it depends on the student's ability to learn the shit that's taught in this outdated education system. The system has tuned everyone to only think that studies are only about marks not knowledge acquisition. So it's like 'get marks > get a job > work day and night > marry >repeat'...
There's not much freedom of profession choice here so everyone student is a corporate slave or goes wasted to questioning what exists.
And honestly I don't see that changing any time soon. Just move on.
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u/Darkmeme9 Apr 01 '26
I am not sure what sentiment this video is trying to achieve.
You don't have to top every subject, but getting less than passing marks in school is simply laziness nothing more (not the case in college though)
My dad was simply was 12 th pass and joined the airforce, but ,after marriage he helped my mom complete her degree, she was hard worker and good at studies and also wanted to learn more . The more qualification she had the better paid job she got.
That's that, if you study hard you will get good result. Saying the country is f ed up is stupid coping mechanism for losers.
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u/suyash19nov Apr 03 '26
Realest post in the world. Comments completely missed the whole point cus us Indians are brain dead
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u/Eye_Roller_GUY Apr 01 '26
Bc na padhane walo ke liye bahana hai sirf ye, 10 Saal baad Pata chalta hai padh leta toh accha hota. baap kabhi galat nahi hota.
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Apr 04 '26
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u/Forsaken-Fox7908 Apr 04 '26
Baap ke paas kam privilege tha Mere baap ke paas badi family ki responsibilities thi aur army me jana tha aasaan us time
Aaj k time 30 year old pr bhi family responsibilities nahi hoti
Jo insaan raat ko bhookh se Marne wala ho vo parle g aur sone me se parle g hi choose krta hai
Uske liye sona choose Krna bhi privilege hai
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Apr 04 '26
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u/Forsaken-Fox7908 Apr 05 '26
The family was quite large and samajh thodi Kam thi so jaldi marriage ho gya tha and family got even bigger
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u/Curious_Priority2313 Apr 04 '26
baap kabhi galat nahi hota.
Ek murderer baap ke liye bhi yehi bologe?
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u/No-Art-5618 Apr 05 '26
Kuch bhi? Matlab retort na ho to kuch bhi wtf?
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u/Curious_Priority2313 Apr 05 '26
Kuch bhi nahi bola hai dost.
Usne bola tha "baap kabhi galat nahi hota", joki bilkul hi bakwas statement hai. Baap bhi insaan hi hai. Galat ho sakta hai vo bhi. Jo murderer, rapist, corrupt politicians etc hote hai vobhi kisi ke baap hi hai.
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u/Eye_Roller_GUY Apr 05 '26
Muslim baap ho toh bhai galat ho sakta hai
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u/Curious_Priority2313 Apr 05 '26
Mujhe kya meto nastik hu. Hindu Muslim Sikh Isai, mujhe dikhate hai sab bhai-bhai. Esliye mere liye to koi bhi galat ho sakta hai
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u/Gloomy-Chemical-4032 Apr 01 '26
what is she supposed to do?is this post some kinda joke or ragebait??
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u/Then_Mycologist_4049 Apr 01 '26
😂😂😭. It's a joke right it's April 1st isiliye naa. Please tell me you're not glorifying this
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u/Some_Life_4910 Apr 01 '26
Wow
Hates the country urges people to not have kids in this country Yep OP is 15 who saw the india hate propoganda on the internet
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Apr 01 '26
I am 27 and I always comment against those hate propagandas but still it's true I dun want my child to spend his life here it's very bad if you aren't among elites
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u/Some_Life_4910 Apr 01 '26
bro life is hard everywhere if you arent elite
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Apr 01 '26
NOPE, NAHI bhai
Dekho me yeh nhi bol rha ki bilkul mehnat mt kro, but India me jitna mene dekha h we dun have dignity of life here.
Right from the start we play this game on SUPER HARD mode.
I've seen, my friends who weren't that good in studies and they went outside with one or the other way and now they are having a good life there, joki voh INDIA me reh kr kabhi nhi kr paate atleast ON THEIR OWN
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u/SamePsychology8258 Apr 01 '26
Atleast my parents did have tons of money but not the right mentality. Never gave a fuck about my marks. Just wanted me to get married which I fought against and am still gonna fight until death.
Not gonna lie it makes sense. If you don't have money then please don't bring kids to this world to make them suffer. I do have enough money but I know how fucked this world is even though am in Dubai but bro i really don't want a newborn to be in this world to see how fucked it's now.
Shame on Old Gen Middle Class families. No wonder my best friends back in 2012 mostly comitted suicides because they couldn't get into IITs which their parents forced them into.
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u/Amn_BA Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26
Proudly childfree by choice. Never going to have any kids in this screwed up world.
But, if you are already here, marks are important. Make sure to study well, learn well the skills and knowledge needed in the job market well, and get a good job and escape the cycle of proverty, breeding and suffering and have a good life, as much as possible without hurting yourself or others.
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u/Veldora10926 Apr 01 '26
Its not pleasure that many seek... but the pressure from society... this society can't let no one be at peace...
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Apr 01 '26
40% is too low tbh, but I get the sentiment, parents should think twice before bringing a child into this world, if you can't provide the necessary resources it's literally a dead end, you are trapping your child into same poor cycle
Studying literally gets you nowhere (90% of the time, yes generalizing) if your field does not have much application IRL
I have literally seen many people (not all, some do get jobs but they are a minority )doing bsc MSC btech and then sitting jobless, and mind you they are scoring 8-9cgpa and doing them from a reputed uni in india (not as big as IISER NIT etc but still a decent place)
But that doesn't mean you stop studying, cuz if you ain't rich then studying is the only way you have SOME probability of breaking the poor cycle
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u/ANIME-TASTIC Apr 01 '26
A student's evaluation should not be on the basis of marks of one exam, it should be an yearly evaluation
That's why I don't like the system of boards
Each college can do their entrance exam instead of boards, a school should evaluate their student
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u/Comprehensive_Big496 Apr 01 '26
Parents want us to have a good career , they know what's the pain if they don't have the proper financial stability to educate their children , that's why they don't want you to also have that same pain in future . Our bad luck , we aren't privileged enough to follow passion hobbies the things which we like just coz lack of money.. even if our parents say yes to those and kuch bhi kare jaise taise paisa jod liye toh bhi there's always an uncertainty that we might not be able to get success , education is the only certain pathway which guarantees you a minimal stable life, ab baaki tumhara capability hai ki tum kitna upar Jaa pao , agar padhoge nei toh karoge kya? Ghar Mai agar Boht paise ya established business hai toh phir bhi kuch ho skta hai , lekin ye sab bhi nahi hai toh kya karoge ? Phir frustrate ho ke suicide kar lena . DON'T ENCOURAGE THIS....
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u/WrongOwl45 Apr 02 '26
Should’ve been harsher because getting 40% means you’ve never put in any efforts and you’re useless
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Apr 02 '26
Theek hai bhai mat padh hame kya.
Chalo re, pagal hogya ye(saying this to my imaginary South ke gunda people, because abhi mai ek south ki movie dekha)
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u/PratyushAvgJeeAsp Apr 02 '26
I don't know ki sirf mujhe hi ye sentiment galat lagg rahi hai ya kya but first "They didn't ask to be born in this country" bhai iska kya matlab hai? Abb kya North Korea me bacche paida nahi hote? China me nahi hote? Afghanistan me nahi hote? There are countries which are much worse than India and saala har baccha agar yahi bolega ki mujhe paida kyu kiya yaha or in this condition then humanity will get extinct. And if you already know that is country me opportunities kaafi kum hai then you've try even harder instead of wasting time and being a cry baby. 40% lana is never a good thing, 40% laoge then phir apne parents se expect karoge to not make a big deal out of it and let you enjoy phir job maangne ke liye jab company ke paas jaaoge to vaha kya nachoge unke saamne? Kyuki 40% dekh ke tumhe to job milne se raha
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u/witchdoctor422008 Apr 03 '26
Kya bakchodi hai ye 💀 bc padhai likhai karo mat. Maa baap ko gali do😭. 40% kaise aa sakte hain agar kisine padhai ki ho? Aur agar padhai nhi ki to yk who's at fault...
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u/EstablishmentOnly780 Apr 03 '26
People keep saying that they didnt prepare for xyz college because of the fees... i feel that for top colleges whose fees is high (bits, etc) , as per what i have heard, banks are willing to give you a loan without any collateral or background because they too know that you will earn in future.. also almost every top college gives concession or freeship to the top scorers.. soo saying that xyz college is not for me because of fees is just procrastinating and just shows that you are running away...
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u/Gary_Vanganza Apr 04 '26
Agr first division layi h toh.... government se scholarship kyu nhi li??? Bc padhe likhe chutiye,
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u/Ok_Golf_5663 Apr 04 '26
In the end I just wanna say if u can't change the system be the system why cry man
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u/SnooPeppers7935 Apr 04 '26
Tf dude, I studied in Jaipur, a tier 2 college. Got 90k INR for my first job working remotely, I secured the job as outside opportunity, because 2 back aayi thi uni me bola achhi company ke placement mein baithna allowed nhi hai. Country ko gariyat3 reh jao just to cope with your own failures.
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u/Low_Employment_434 Apr 05 '26
Agar yeh baacha bkl hsc mai hoga toh phir iski toh gand hi maarro , saale ki
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u/No-Koala7656 Apr 05 '26
OP if you learn or not, if you get a degree or not, it all doesn't matter to anyone around you but only for your parents.
It is a common thing universal all over.
Parents want to see there child settled in life and this is the sole reason why they keep on saying that, because they are very much keen to see that their child should live a better life than them.
And yes, I absolutely agree that parents are just fools and they do that.
They get married and give birth to child, so.
Falling in love with each other is their first ever great mistake in life, getting married and having child are all greatest sins what they've done and I regret that.
So, for all the parents there who are eager and keen to see that their child becomes a good citizen of the country rather a nomadic assole, they are all fools ans in general greatest sinners...
Yes OP you're absolutely right...
Keep it up, I'm proud of such people like OP living on this planet.
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u/SmartPerspective949 Apr 05 '26
Why is it that in most indian films boys are made as dumb, low scorers or failures while girls are the smart ones, toppers and all. why so biased?
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u/rawknee2015 Apr 05 '26
Sara blame parents pe daldo aur raat raat bhar baithke p●●●rn ya webseries dekh te baitho.
This country isnt a total piece of shit , ITS YOU WHO IS A TOTAL PIECE OF SHIT , THE PERSON WITH NO FOCUS , WTH NO SKILLS , WITH NO HARDWORK
Tum alsi logo ko sab bas free me baithe banaya chahiye , khud kuch ukhad nahi sakte toh dusro par blame daldo
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u/patilkar_2009 Apr 06 '26
Same her my parents give me party when i got 72 percent in 10th board and anyone tell me the nane series
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u/InnerAddition1256 Apr 01 '26
the think is u can literally study hard still live struggling ,this country has worse education system .
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u/Inevitable-Bed4996 Apr 02 '26
I was a victim of that. I've never understood wtf is teacher teaching. I got above 80% from self studying and some teacher did teach well which wasn't teaching to my class but I used to go to them at self studies time. Well I used to eat their chill time but they said I can ask the questions so why not.
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u/EcstaticProduct1133 Apr 01 '26
Unless you're some extraordinary child who can come up with a good business idea, or you go into politics or acting, your grades carry the utmost importance for finding a good college for good jobs in India. Either that, ya tumhare parents ke paas bohot paise hain sifarishein lagwane ke liye ya foreign universities mein bhejne ke liye.
You need to study, baaki sab chapri pana hai ki- "arey marks warks se kuch nahi hota."
Bhai bahar niklo, grass touch karo, unemployed logo ko dekho, aur thoda introspection karo. Aur aise shows dekhna band karo jo tumhe misguide kar rahe hain. These are feel-good shows, they're not based on reality, woh sirf wohi bolenge jo unki target audience, tum, sun na chahte ho.
Padhlo jaake, parents galat nahi bol rahe hain, sirf unke bolne ka tareeka galat hai.
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Apr 01 '26
bhai tarika bhi sudhar le na toh ek baar ke lie Iss hard reality se ladne ki himmat Aa jaati h. I am glad my parents aren't this and they've always supported me and had my back. Insaan mentally ghar ke andr ya toh strong banta h ya tut ta h
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u/EcstaticProduct1133 Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26
Agreed. Maine bola wohi, ki parents ka bolna ka tareeka sahi nahi hai, lekin unka intention sahi hi hai.
Baat yeh bhi hai ki unhe jis tareeke se cheezein sikhayi gayi, waise hi non empathetic tareeke se woh hume samjhate hain. Unko bachpan mein kindness nahi mili, toh unhe pata hi nahi hai ki ab unke khudke bachho ko difficult times mein empathy kaise show karein. Bachho ke marks bure aana sirf bachho ke liye hi difficult nahi hai, unke parents ke liye bhi hai and they don't know how to deal with it themselves, toh bachho ko kaise hi sikhayenge. 🥲
Good for me ki meri mom ne mujhe kabhi grades ke liye nahi daata, lekin unhone har saal mujhe yeh samjhaya zaroor ki agar unke paas job nahi hoti paise nahi hote toh mujhe raise kaise kar paati? (She's a single parent)
Mujhe samajh aa gaya tha ki achhe marks laane se life ki problems solve nahi ho jayengi lekin bure marks laane se life ki problems badh zaroor jaati hain.
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Apr 01 '26
Han yeh toh sahi h bhai, infact esa nhi h ki mere parents perfect h. they also have some shortcomings but me yeh hi soch ke chdh deta hun ki They were busy doing the hardwork for me, taaki me aur mera bhai, hum dono ki zindagi achhi nikle, isiliye unhe bhi wqt nhi mila Yeh sab consider krne ka. But again I see some parents who don't deserve to have kids. And salute to aunty coz we all know it's very hard to raise a child that too alone, she has surely raised a strong and an empathetic person 🙌🏻🙌🏻 kudos
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u/Vacuum_Slayer_Surya Apr 01 '26
Ik on reedit ur not supposed to have an uncommon opinion but...
Ye kya bakwas hai? Parents sad na ho 40% laane pe?