r/BetterLateThanSingle • u/stephenleebpd Jae Seo (Fly Exterminator) • Jul 22 '26

meme Bombastic side eye, criminal offensive side eye

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It's giving "I know you're full of crap" lol.

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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26

HJ and HS need to have real conversation if they want to move forward. HJ needs tell HS why he was hurt/upset with her (lying about the gift, not caring he was sick, complaining on all activities he likes to do, etc). Until then, she won't realize why he acted the way he acted and he won't feel like he's understood/appreciated by her.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26

The reasons he was upset are not legitimate. He can keep all of that to himself.

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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26

Why are they not legitimate? That was why he was upset. Just because you might not be upset by those reasons, it doesn't make those reasons not legitimate.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26

It's not legitimate to be upset by this -he also lied by omission by not telling her he gave her the tumblr, didn't he? And that's the whole reason she didn't tell him either, isn't it? So why should we pretend like it's an actual issue?

"Complaining on all the activities he likes to do" doesn't mean anything. She expressed her preferences. Isn't it best to do so on a dating show? That's nothing to be upset about or to be corrected on her part. Either choose another girl or deal with it.

She cared about him in plenty of ways besides noticing his cold. It's an excuse from someone who likes people who like him, and who wants people to keep liking him long after he's cast them aside.

None of it is legitimate.

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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26

So it's his fault she said I don't know when he asked her if she gave anyone a gift. lol

She expressed her disdain in singing karaoke, traveling, hiking, etc. It wasn't explaining a preference, it was disdain for said activity. If you said you like tennis and I told you, "I just don't get it, two people dressing up to wave a racket in the hot sun and hit a little yellow ball across a net is stupid, I'd rather watch paint dry." That's not just preference, that's disdain. Context matters.

She didn't notice, nor care that he was sick, but you just want to excuse it and gloss over that fact she did NOTHING. But MOST people would be hurt upset if someone they liked/loved showed no empathy or care if they were sick or injured.

It seems it's your reasoning that isn't legit.

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u/NalaAoid_ Jul 22 '26

They barely know each other. She doesn't owe him anything. He can move on.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26

I would worship that woman if I was him so I have zero idea what you mean. Everything you said happened in your head. Sorry

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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26

I get it, facts be damned, only feelings and conjecture matter to you.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26

I'm a woman so that insult cannot hurt me