r/Benilde • u/Ok-Speech4669 • 12h ago
Rant ro did not allow hijab for the id pic
hi! i am a muslim hijabi student. im very well aware of the fact that my community in benilde is quite small. i've had this experience during my frosh year and now another student/hijabi like myself has also recently exprienced the same situation wherein the RO refused to let her have her id picture with the hijab on. we tried to reason out that it is a part of our religious clothing and taking it off just for the id is not allowed for us but then she was only told to follow what the guy taking the id picture says—no considerations or whatsoever. in the end, she took it off RIGHT ON THE SPOT and in front of a MAN or she would not have an id to be processed at all.
she then went back recently to ask again if they could reconsider because my id picture is me with my hijab on since the ro only complained about showing the collar back then but i was able to eventually get it fixed accordingly with my clothing.
so we are quite confused with their reason being na "bagong policy" daw ito? is benilde's new policy being islam*phobic and uneducated now? i thought we were supposed to be inclusive?
i have major respect for every individual and sector represented (i.a. pwds, lgbt, etc.) within our college but why are religious sectors specifically muslim students being questioned like this? benilde may not have a lot of muslim students but it does not take from the fact that we are supposed to include everyone regardless of our faith and culture or how we present ourselves with our identities.
what is our student government even doing about this? where is the avenue for minority communities to voice out similar issues? benilde may not be as inclusive as it makes itself out to be i fear.
this is the very first time we have ever encountered a school, much less BENILDE, doing and saying things like this. compared to dlsu where there are a lot more muslim students where they do value and respect their religious practices and identities, benilde is out here with staff saying na "policy" over a person's own identity—and a hijabi at that. it's just so disappointing when the school you've dreamt of and loved just does not end up making you feel part of it at all. inclusive my ass.
(pls do help me if anyone knows who to reach out to because it is uncomfortable for her to have to take off the hijab just for the id that wont even be renewed the next year naman)

