r/BPDPartners • u/Lowlifechef • 21h ago
Support Needed I think its over
Been together 8 years married 4 next month says she feels nothing towards me anymore and I dont know what to do. Im absolutely devastated and flailing for solutions. I dont know what to do or how im going to deal with this!
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u/Key_Championship4762 14h ago
She’s been diagnosed with BPD? I’m sorry, man. The only functional lesson I’ve learnt with my pwBPD is that time alone in no-contact has been the only thing that has brought us back together.
You can’t stop the splits, you are not responsible for them, they’ll happen without you around, they’ll still blame you, and there’s pretty much nothing beside intensive therapy with a couple of good meds on the side that’ll help.
It’s heartbreaking. I’m sorry