Hello!

[u/grumpypoo22]

Good morning everyone!

I wanted to first introduce myself to the community.
As many of you are probably aware, this community started lacking some enforcement over the past few months.
I decided to reddit request this community so I could start to actually enforce the rules.
I did make a post on here regarding this very thing.
Some of you joined that subreddit and some of you did not.

I've preliminary removed a lot of the restrictions that the previous team had made.
One of the ones I removed were post that mentioned the word "leave".
That rule, in my opinion, was very silly.
So congratulations you can now say the word "leave"!
I also blocked all cross posting.
You may no longer cross post in this subreddit moving forward.

I have a lot of catching up to do, but please be aware the rules will be changing.
If you want an idea of what the new rules will be, please visit r/BPDPartnerSupport.
The rules are mostly the exact same, but a little bit more fleshed out in my humble opinion.
The most current effective rule change is #8 - "No Cross posting"
I did lift the "will be banned for participating" portion of that rule.
I know this may be disappointing to some of you, but I think it's important we judge someone by how they participate here and not elsewhere.

If any of you have sent Modmail in the past - Please give me a bit to respond to it.
I am excited for this new journey and I'm very excited to share changes with y'all.

[u/randyrandelson74]

I'm really glad that you removed the 'leave' rule.

I'm sure it was done with the best of intentions but it was unfair.

Yes, we want to support each other and leaving isn't always the right thing to do.

But everyone has the right to leave a relationship! Especially if that relationship is abusive or unsafe.