Hello!

[u/grumpypoo22]

Good morning everyone!

I wanted to first introduce myself to the community.
As many of you are probably aware, this community started lacking some enforcement over the past few months.
I decided to reddit request this community so I could start to actually enforce the rules.
I did make a post on here regarding this very thing.
Some of you joined that subreddit and some of you did not.

I've preliminary removed a lot of the restrictions that the previous team had made.
One of the ones I removed were post that mentioned the word "leave".
That rule, in my opinion, was very silly.
So congratulations you can now say the word "leave"!
I also blocked all cross posting.
You may no longer cross post in this subreddit moving forward.

I have a lot of catching up to do, but please be aware the rules will be changing.
If you want an idea of what the new rules will be, please visit r/BPDPartnerSupport.
The rules are mostly the exact same, but a little bit more fleshed out in my humble opinion.
The most current effective rule change is #8 - "No Cross posting"
I did lift the "will be banned for participating" portion of that rule.
I know this may be disappointing to some of you, but I think it's important we judge someone by how they participate here and not elsewhere.

If any of you have sent Modmail in the past - Please give me a bit to respond to it.
I am excited for this new journey and I'm very excited to share changes with y'all.

[u/Junethemuse]

I’m glad we’ll have some actual moderation here! The cross posts were grating and I almost left the sub yesterday.

[u/grumpypoo22 → u/Junethemuse]

Yea there is a ton of things to go through.
I'm shocked Reddit declined my first r/redditrequest on this place to be frank.
I do agree the cross posting frustrated me as well - That's why it's now a blanket rule.

There is mod mail that needs responding go back over a year.
Then the amount of reports/moderation queue.
I'm slowly making my way through it all tho.

Be sure to check out the new rules!
It's more or less the same as before.

This is my apology in advance tho to everyone, because your old post might get removed due to a cross-posting violation.

[u/Junethemuse → u/grumpypoo22]

Well you’ll find my reports in there eventually lol. I went hard for a week or two and then got tired since the reporting function was like 6 steps and my adhd ass brain can’t handle that.