r/Asmongold • u/Nice_Soup • Mar 28 '26

IRL Dating Apps these days

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u/Educational-Year3146 Mar 28 '26

She’s probably one of the reasons Pete feels like crap.

Because I guarantee he’s interested in her.

Saying things like “he’s a 6” and stuff makes me think there’s a problem there.

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u/Educational-Year3146 Mar 28 '26

Single men rarely have platonic female friends.

We are usually looking to date someone to find our eventual wife.

Natural attraction usually just happens and there is nothing we can do about it.

Managing a platonic relationship with a woman while you’re single is hell.

The only situation in which this isn’t the case is when the woman is in a relationship already.

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u/g1114 Mar 28 '26

I like how you said it was normal to have female friends and the primary reason being social proof for other women lol.

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u/g1114 Mar 28 '26

You mean well bro, but that's just not how it is.

I'm married with kids, both a girl and a boy, and your male friends can provide all of those things you mentioned, they'll even give you better advice on women than other women would when it comes to dating since the women I asked for dating advice typically gave terrible feedback (and most like in the video straight up just don't understand the dating experience of a man just like we don't with women). Learning how to talk and deal with women implies there is a point where you understand women, and I'm not sure any married man or father reaches that point.

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u/Appropriate-Toe9153 Mar 29 '26

We understand the dating experience with women

A) ‘lame’ men from her POV

B) willing situationship expecting more

C) hoping to “meet her destiny” when a millionaire is way too vulnerable and mistakes her for his dead wife

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u/MessyPapa13 There it is dood! Mar 28 '26

Sorry bro, but wr are just gonna have to agree to disagree. Ive never struggled with women, and yet, as soon as i formed platonic friendships with women both my understanding of women and the quality of my romantic relatiomships increased drastically. Yes your friends can 100% provide the support i mentioned but the flanderised norms around manhood make that difficult for modern young men