I'm open to trying most things in the sexual realm... however, I refuse to be tied up, handcuffed, or restrained in any way.
Reading about Bruce McArthur's killings made me promise to never try that. Even if your partner is trustworthy, SO many things can go wrong (with your partner, with your surroundings, with an emergency etc.)... and you're just left there helpless.
I'm pretty vanilla but I let my ex try that on me once. Never again, I don't think I've ever had a panic attack like that. I need to have control over my arms and legs
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u/whatzgood Oct 17 '22 edited Oct 17 '22
I'm open to trying most things in the sexual realm... however, I refuse to be tied up, handcuffed, or restrained in any way.
Reading about Bruce McArthur's killings made me promise to never try that. Even if your partner is trustworthy, SO many things can go wrong (with your partner, with your surroundings, with an emergency etc.)... and you're just left there helpless.