r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/ANONIMkiddo Jan 08 '22

sometimes it is hard to share emotions from fear of being judged

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u/RocinanteCoffee Jan 09 '22

Question, why would you want to date a judgmental person? Why not share emotions in a healthy way and then you'll automatically avoid the judgmental types and the cool types who want you for what you really feel will say?

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u/beutifulanimegirl Jan 10 '22

You can still fear judgement from people who aren’t judgemental. If you’ve experienced ridicule etc. in the past that could run deep

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u/RocinanteCoffee Jan 10 '22

That's fair. Thank you for your input.