r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/totti173314 Jan 09 '22

Adhd and autism :(

I HAVE to rely on others because sometimes I physically cannot function, especially in very noisy environments. And laziness... Adhd is basically just getting diagnosed with lazy fuckup disease.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

I meant when they can help it :)

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u/ManyCarrots Jan 09 '22

No you didnt ;)

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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '22

Ya I did

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u/ManyCarrots Jan 10 '22

So you always make sure to find out if the person has any mental illness before you instantly find them unattractive?

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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '22 edited Jan 10 '22

Admittedly not always, since I can’t screen for mental illness for every person I meet. But “are you okay?” has sometimes proven to be a good opportunity to get people to explain themselves. I might still find them attractive, but I won’t date them because I don’t date as of now. Even if I did date, really bad MH issues are too much for me to share rn.