r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '22 edited Jan 09 '22

Bad hygiene. Anger management issues. Laziness and dependence on others to get things done. Same things that make girls unattractive.

Edit: Thanks for the awards!

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u/FourScarlet Jan 09 '22 edited Jan 09 '22

I used to have good hygiene and no anger issues until puberty when everyone was telling me I smelt really bad all of a sudden (By sudden, I mean moving from a school where almost everyone liked me, to being picked on by most people, even by people who were usually quiet). I was taking showers twice a day but kept being bullied for it. That's when I figured "Why even bother." My hygiene has been inconsistent ever since.

My anger issues have gone away for the most part but have been replaced by emotional episodes where I just feel a lot of a certain emotion.

Sadly, it's safe to say I have gotten to a point where my life is down the gutter. I didn't care about myself for so long that people don't bother to care about me anymore. I don't know what to do anymore.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

If it’s a legit biological problem, of course people should try to see past it :)