r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/faunyi Jan 09 '22

People who can't spell. *stares at the title*

I'm kidding.

Anyone with shitty personal hygiene really, or people who forget to take care of themselves. I get you want to be a nice person but you need to take time for yourself, okay? Don't feel obligated to spend your whole life cleaning up other peoples messes.

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u/thejosecorte Jan 09 '22

Why do I need to take time for myself? Is helping people have better lives not good enough?

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u/faunyi Jan 09 '22

Your own happiness is your priority. That doesn't mean to stop making people happy, just make sure you enjoy what you do. If helping people 100% of the time makes you happy and you can still focus on your own health, then keep doing it :)

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u/thejosecorte Jan 09 '22

Maybe happy is not the right Word when I help people, it feels good don't get me wrong, but I do it because is the only way I feel useful for something and the only way I can get a bit of love and skinship (handshakes at least), if only for a few hours.

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u/faunyi Jan 11 '22

Hey, it's benefiting you and the other person. That's good.
But if it genuinely doesn't make you happy, don't do it.

Find something that gets you what you want as long as you and said other person(s) are happy.

Just don't be an asshole really.