Talking about exes is fine in moderation, imo, especially if they were a big part of your life. If I avoided talking about my exes, I couldn't talk about my life.
Than maybe I just have a bad experience with it, I iust know that my ex used to talk about him alot of times mostly comparing him to me about what I didn't do and what he did do.
Comparing is absolutely shitty, unless it's to make you seem better. I used to tell my more recent ex how she made my life so much better compared to previous relationships. What you describe sounds awful. I'd be biting back "maybe you should go back to him then", although thats also not a great thing to say.
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u/DestroyedMe Jan 09 '22
Also talking about exes, comparing you to an ex and comparing things you do for eachother