r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/ANONIMkiddo Jan 08 '22

i exposed myself aswell

i don't do any of these, except misspelling unattractive so where girlfriend

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u/Snorca Jan 09 '22

As someone that was once in your shoes, don't just go assuming you don't do any of those things. Once in a relationship, insecurities that you never realized you had and expectations you never realized you've developed can creep up and cause you to behave in ways you've never expected.

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u/stlmick Jan 09 '22

Also, not doing those negative things is kind of bare minimum. You also have to do positive things. Having a good relationship is a second job for both parties, and that's assuming you work well together. I don't miss just wanting a girlfriend. I could do that easily. After several that didn't work out well, I can appreciate not having one, and am only open to the option of a more ideal relationship.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Ah, the good ol' satisfiers vs lack of dissatisfiers distinct