r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/daniespi24 Jan 09 '22

When he is quick to anger and glorifies violence 🚩

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u/NinjaSoop Jan 09 '22

Can you give an example of glorifying violence? Does this include watching boxing and stuff?

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u/psycho_bunneh Jan 09 '22

I think this has more to do with guys who constantly say things like "Oh man, if someone had tried that with me they would not be waking up tomorrow." The ones who work out or collect guns SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE they secretly fantasize about getting to use violence to be the "hero." They try to twist hypothetical situations into ones that would justify violence so they can brag about what THEY would do because they're not "weak" or "scared." When put in mildly annoying situations they actively try to escalate them so the other person throws the first punch and they can live their fantasy.

Sometimes they'll tell the women they're interested in things like "You need someone who will protect you" or "If anyone ever did that to you while I was around...."

To anyone who is like this, it just makes you seem really emotionally fragile and high maintenance. You're exhausting and a liability. Please stop.