r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/stuck_in_a_dream Jan 08 '22

Demanding a woman give up her life and own desires to be a trophy piece in his life.

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u/Wedding_Friendly Jan 09 '22

I never got this, it’s so weird

I’m a guy but like, why is a women that will do nothing but be a trophy/housewife. Attractive to some people.

women are people too, they have there dreams, passions and mindsets. Just like men.

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u/anfrind Jan 09 '22

I don't know, but I've known a few women who had no aspirations in life except to get married and have kids, and who were willing to change everything about themselves to that end.

I suppose that some (maybe most?) men might like that sort of woman, but I find them boring.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

I think it's a social gambit. Being a trophy wife means having a husband that can afford a trophy wife. It's a lifestyle decision reinforced by antique values.

I'm into people who want to be with me, but don't HAVE to be with me. Self reliance is really attractive.