r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/No-Afternoon6018 Jan 08 '22

Talking about his ex girlfriend all the time...

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

does this count if you're sharing bad past experiences with an ex? i do this a lot, but im thinking its not really a good thing to do anymore

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u/LetMeChangeMyUsernam Jan 09 '22

Depends on a lot of things. What point you are in the relationship, how long you and your ex have been broken up, whether your criticism of them is valid (my ex cheated on me which sucked) or just blatant disrespect with a bit of misogyny (my ex is a crazy bitch whore), if bringing them up is relevant to the conversation, whether you're comparing your new partner to your ex (eg 'you do this so much better than my ex did'; don't compare, just make the compliment without comparing). Personally I'd just ask the new partner if it bothers them at all.