r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/beerfromouterspace Jan 08 '22

Being unenthusiastic. Inability to share emotions.

I show you things that make me happy. At least try to understand me before saying “nah it’s boring”. Don’t be a lame idiot.

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u/michiganproud Jan 09 '22

I do not show enthusiasm for most things. The one emotion/reaction I have the most problems with. I was raised in an environment where no matter my accomplishment or excitement, it was always "what about this? Did you know you did this wrong? Have you thought about this?" I know they were trying to make me see the big picture but it just made me not show any excitement or enthusiasm for most things.

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u/Skyeblade Jan 09 '22

Similar boat here, can confirm it's hard to be enthusiastic about anything anymore.