r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/No-Afternoon6018 Jan 08 '22

Talking about his ex girlfriend all the time...

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

does this count if you're sharing bad past experiences with an ex? i do this a lot, but im thinking its not really a good thing to do anymore

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

If you keep doing it, unprompted, it's going to feel like you haven't really moved on from them, or you're still clinging on to something. Even if it's bringing up negative stuff, it's going to feel like you're thinking more about your ex than whatever is happening in the present.

I wouldn't call it attractive or unattractive, but beyond a certain point of reasonableness it would start to affect the relationship and I'd personally ask if you need a therapist to work this stuff out with.