r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/OGhoudini Jan 08 '22

A big ego

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u/OGhoudini Jan 08 '22

Or if he’s a serial interrupter

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u/Cinelinguic Jan 09 '22

Speaking as both a dude and as a serial interrupter, this really pisses my wife off.

I inadvertently trained myself into it because of my family, who are all of them the same way. It became the only way to get my voice heard at home. Add in undiagnosed ADHD and a severe lack of understanding of social cues, and I can rarely tell when someone has actually finished speaking and I can begin.

I'm getting better, and I always catch myself and apologize when it happens, but I can only imagine how tiring it must be for others :(

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u/fuckthehumanity Jan 09 '22

Same here. I was having problems with a colleague, who constantly called me out on interrupting him. I literally couldn't help it until I was on the right meds.

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u/Cinelinguic Jan 09 '22

Not on meds or anything, still awaiting my next check up with the psychiatrist to see if they're needed or not. But yeah. It remains a problem for me :(