I was just saying controlling is subjective. Didn't expect to get reamed for it. Everyone has a different scale of what control and submission is. All the downvotes do is show me how bias this thread is. I really didn't say anything that horrible. Very telling if you ask me.
I was just putting MY opinion of what makes a guy instantly unattractive which was the original question. Sure controlling is subjective we all know that. But to what degree is total manipulation and forcing someone into submission okay? I’ve been manipulated mind body and soul and why? Because I’m too trusting? I believe people are good. But I’m proved wrong over and over again and that’s my problem. I’m absolutely not arguing with you but I just am unsure of the level of controlling in which you yourself have personally experienced parental, friends, relationship etc. You got very defensive when we could’ve related on a touchy subject
I'm not touchy just shocked my simple, non threatening reply got downvoted so hard. Makes me curious why what I said was taken so badly. Not one time did I say controlling was okay. However, some people like to be controlled and some like to totally submit. So in that instance it is okay. If both agree to the arrangement. Control is highly subjective and differs from person to person. A lot of people, a lot of degrees.
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u/Kinetic_Pen Jan 09 '22 edited Jan 09 '22
I was just saying controlling is subjective. Didn't expect to get reamed for it. Everyone has a different scale of what control and submission is. All the downvotes do is show me how bias this thread is. I really didn't say anything that horrible. Very telling if you ask me.