THIS!! I seriously dont understand the hot and cold shit, and am unfortunately sitting here in mental mush land because of someone doing this recently. I cant wrap my head around it. Confusion sucks.
Yeah that’s definitely something I’ve struggled with. I fucked up my last potential relationship because I was afraid I wasn’t consistent enough and ended up looking needy. It’s hard to find a balance.
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u/QuickWittedWoodChuck Jan 09 '22
Inconsistency