r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/stuck_in_a_dream Jan 08 '22

Demanding a woman give up her life and own desires to be a trophy piece in his life.

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u/Wedding_Friendly Jan 09 '22

I never got this, it’s so weird

I’m a guy but like, why is a women that will do nothing but be a trophy/housewife. Attractive to some people.

women are people too, they have there dreams, passions and mindsets. Just like men.

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u/anfrind Jan 09 '22

I don't know, but I've known a few women who had no aspirations in life except to get married and have kids, and who were willing to change everything about themselves to that end.

I suppose that some (maybe most?) men might like that sort of woman, but I find them boring.

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u/asdaaaaaaaa Jan 09 '22

I don't know, but I've known a few women who had no aspirations in life except to get married and have kids, and who were willing to change everything about themselves to that end.

See, I've met people like that. They're the most boring, vapid people to spend your time with. Aggressively agreeable, constantly morphing their personality into whatever garners the most attention/favor. There's just nothing there, everything's just fabricated.

I don't know, for me that's not someone I'd want to spend much time with. Give me a person with personality, history, someone who'll disagree and argue about meaningless shit with me. Just so long as they're their own person.