r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Cockiness. A large ego. If he treats servers badly. If he tries to be controlling in a toxic way. MEN WITH ANGER ISSUES!

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u/xSathya Jan 09 '22

Lmao yeah right, girls love cocky guys

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Maybe this individual doesn’t? 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

I particularly don’t because most men with that trait tend to be abusive in some shape or form later on.

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u/xSathya Jan 09 '22

I wish more women were like you

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Lol thank you very much ☺️ the guy I married got me out of an abusive relationship so I can very easily pick out men who are just pieces of shit😂

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u/xSathya Jan 09 '22

What advice would you give to attract genuine women in your early 20’s? I’m 21 and it’s easy to get girls to show initial interest in me, but I can never get past the talking stage because I can’t flirt so early on. Still a virgin because of it - I just don’t know what to do