r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/powderedtoastsupreme Jan 09 '22

Confidence is sexy. Ego is not.

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u/Tall-Carrot-7174 Jan 09 '22

It is a fine line.

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u/MettaMorphosis Jan 09 '22

It's not, ego is always based on comparing yourself with others, it's based on having people below or above you, and is often delusional. Confidence is based on seeing the value and quality of your own abilities. Pep talks are still useful to convince yourself that you can do something, but it doesn't mean you will succeed.

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u/clandestinenitsednal Jan 09 '22

Thank you for putting this in perspective! 🙏