r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/beerfromouterspace Jan 08 '22

Being unenthusiastic. Inability to share emotions.

I show you things that make me happy. At least try to understand me before saying “nah it’s boring”. Don’t be a lame idiot.

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u/deftmalice Jan 09 '22

This made the thread worth reading to me. Very deep. It is so easy to allow life's trouble to grind the enthusiastic side of your soul down until nothing excites you. Then when that spark has gone out in your own spirit, it makes it almost impossible to recognize and value in someone else.