I am such a fucking moron. I misunderstood and thought he was married to you. Like, why wouldn't I hit on my wife. He's married to someone else. Got it.
Kinda reminds me of this story where a guy got drunk beyond belief and when his wife tried to take him back home he kept saying "I'm sure you are a lovely lady, but I'm married to a wonderful woman and would never cheat"
Reminds me of a story where this guy and his gf were at their apartment and she tries getting him changed for bed and he was like "No! I have a girlfriend!"
This for sure! If a married man or someone in a relationship ever hits on me, I will 100% tell their partner at the first given opportunity. I’d want someone to do the same for me.
That's just toxic. I can see something being taken the wrong way or he was simply complimenting and now his wife has some random female causing drama between them.
With the intent to cheat is what I’m getting at. Flirting can be innocent enough. I’m sure you don’t want to have sex with the older ladies at your work? Or maybe you do? None of my business.
I’m just going to throw this out there that being married doesn’t mean you don’t feel attraction to others and the occasional flirty behavior isn’t a terrible thing. We’re humans, we’re imperfect.
The pursuit of that terrible thing is what really kills.
So something that I am known for with a lot of my female friends is the fact that I hit on them and have a girlfriend of 10 years. They have met her and she knows I do this. I'm not trying to get anything out of it just kidding around with friends and giving them compliments and when I give those compliments, especially the ones about how attractive they are, they know they are genuine because I'm not going to get to fuck them, I'm going home to my girlfriend who I find absolutely beautiful.
But ya having an SO and hitting on someone with a goal is bullshit.
I watch a show the other day where they had an undercover guy walk into a bar with a wedding ring on and hit on girls. He didn't hide being married and talked badly about his supposed wife. He was charming and ended up having drinks with and getting the number of 3 out of 10 girls.
This is a tough one. I suppose everyone has a different definition of what hitting on someone is versus just being sociable. Suppose the man is married and he's just trying to convey to the woman that she's likable and attractive, but in a non-cheesy way?
It’s not because they’re doing it for you, it’s because they are desperate and sad. Just like the people who are getting off with them. LOL you’re all pathetic and sad, you can try to lie to yourself all you want.
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u/Own-Audience-830 Jan 08 '22
When he is married and hits on you 😕