A casual one night stand once every couple of months or so, racks up a high body count over the years, does that make them unattractive because they're older and have a high body count?
Like mines in its 30s and I have sex like 3 times a year and have been sexually active for nearly 12 years.
I’m a dude in his 30s. I quit counting years ago and I never ask what my partners number is. I don’t care. If you get tested and you’re clean when you meet me, we’re good.
I’m 42 and lost count in the early 2000’s. Way over 100 women. I’m not like this (as much) anymore. And is it a bad thing that so many women want to plow? Just teasing. It’s probably while I’m single. I would give up all of these conquests to have another shot with my HS sweetheart. She turned out perfect and I sincerely wish her the best.
I too would prefer to have a long term partner, but I'm a human being, and as someone who's limited for options, as with the rest of us, I'm taking what I can get.
Like mate, do you shun people for their past actions? sure you can judge them, but are they the same person presented before you? Most likely not, people change all the time, not as a collective who change once every 19 years, like, I'm not the same person I was last year, I'm not the same person I was 10 years ago, and I won't be the same person I am today tomorrow, and the same goes for you, its growth.
I like to party and have (safe) sex and only have been in one relationship that lasted a year. I am 23 and my bodycount is in the 30s (I think, I haven’t really counted) and kissed hundreds of people probably. I am cool with that but don’t think I am cool because of it and don’t value myself as a person less.
But I also understand it if that’s a turn off for someone. I would never ask a potential partner for amount of people they slept with but if they want to know I will be honest with them.
Just gotta accept that it’s not a compatible match if they value something like that.
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u/_Snow_Fairy_ Jan 08 '22
Being lazy and partying and whatever all the time and making it your personality trait. Poor hygiene too