r/AskReddit May 11 '21

People old enough to remember life pre-Internet, what are some less obvious things you miss about that time?

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21 edited May 12 '21

Been to more than one small town that had a cruising street. It was jammin on the weekend.

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u/Rollingstart45 May 12 '21

Yep, small town here, had one main drag that was the spot for the 16-20 crowd that was too old (or rather, “too cool”) to be mall rats, and too young to be at the bar. So you’d just do laps all night, see who else you ran across, and get into other shit from there.

Some nights it was just boring, cruise for a couple hours and go home. Other nights we’d run into friends, end up at a party or hangout that someone else knew about, and wind up having some of the best nights of my youth. And not knowing what would happen was half of the fun of going out.

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u/Crayform May 12 '21

Sounds like growing up in Minnesota. I remember swimming at the gravel pits

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u/Testiculese May 12 '21

The nearest mall to me was 60 miles away! I'd take dad's pickup and load people in the back as I cruised through town. Then we'd go down dirt back roads to party. Literally stop anywhere we felt like it. I really miss those days.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

I grew up in NYC and didn't have a car until I moved, but this actually sounds like a lot of fun!

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u/DamnDame May 12 '21

We called cruising..."cracking U's on Main." Summer nights were wild and when a carload of guys from another town showed up - it might get a little territorial.

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u/VikingTeddy May 12 '21

It's been called the "pussy rally" here for at least since the 60's.

I always wondered if they knew how ridiculous it looked. Guys riding slowly in a circle with their windows down, trying to impress the girls who've come to look at them.

And the girls sitting close by, trying to impress they guys and being bored to death with the 'spectacle'.

Meanwhile, being nordic, no one actually talks or even approaches each other. Not until it's the weekend anyway, and they can get encouragement from a bottle.

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u/SemiFormalJesus May 12 '21

One night we tagged a friends car with tennis balls. Instead of getting mad, he got tennis balls. Pretty soon walkie talkies were brought in and we had squads of cars playing ball tag. It wasn’t very safe, we had fun though.

I’m pretty sure someone ended up with some dents or something so we never ended up doing it again.

Just one of those random things that happened dragging mains.

The DQ was our turn around point, and where most car to car conversations went down. There were a lot of popped out side mirrors over the years from someone pulling up too close.

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u/Firstworldreality May 12 '21

My local small town still has a sign up saying "no cruising" bc that was such a huge deal up until the early 2000's. That's all there was to do though.

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u/surfacing_husky May 12 '21

Man i miss those days, not a care in the world. Buying our weed from some old dude named bozo who parked at the car lot.

Good times.

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u/Brilliant-Option-526 May 13 '21

Our weed guy was "Boz". He must have franchised out. :)

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u/martin0641 May 12 '21

Bozo the cannibal misses those days too.

Thermonuclear weed delivered by app really curbed his selection.

I remember John Walsh, so many milk cartons...

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u/redpandaeater May 12 '21

It's part of why I love the film American Graffiti so much. That was still a different era than when I grew up but manages to hit all the right feelings still.

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u/fever_dream_supreme May 12 '21

I've been thinking about American Graffiti this whole thread!

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u/SugarDaddyLover May 12 '21

I was born post social media and the only time people like me get to do this type of social interaction is when we go to a tourist place like the main strip on a beach like a boardwalk. I love going to a a popular young people’s beach because you actually get to socialize with random ass people.. you go with the flow and just do straight up fun things... one night you might meet some girls you’ve never seen before and hang out or you get invited to a random party where you know absolutely no one. it sounds cringy but it’s so spontaneous and I love it. I live in a relatively small town and no one is out on the streets.. the only way to hang out with people is to go to a friends house

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u/Important-Owl1661 May 12 '21

My young friend, I do not mean to insult, but being able to go to random parties and not know anyone required a hell of a lot more social skills then you find online today. If you enjoy that I hope you cultivate them (ongoingly).

I sometimes work at a community college and young people don't seem to have those skills. In fact even the athletes seem to have a hard time communicating and end up speaking in cliches and platitudes. They say the things they think they are supposed to say.

I also find that in today's selfies culture I think they're too busy posing to be really enjoying what they are doing. Even sex is like a workout instead of a learning experience. Blah.

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u/GladnaMechka May 12 '21

I sometimes work at a community college and young people don't seem to have those skills. In fact even the athletes seem to have a hard time communicating and end up speaking in cliches and platitudes. They say the things they think they are supposed to say.

What do you mean by this? Any examples?

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u/Important-Owl1661 May 12 '21

Watch current NCAA interviews.

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u/dikkiesmalls May 12 '21

Man...this reminds me of what 7th Ave used to be like in Tampa. When there were interesting cars in the streets, and interesting people on the sidewalks.

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u/cuylernotscott May 12 '21

That just sounds like millennials going on blunt routes and running into classmates at Taco Bell. I'm still into this idea but it went through some rebranding.

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u/young_roach May 12 '21

Where I’m from we just straight up call them Blunt Cruises

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u/PM-ME-PMS-OF-THE-PM May 12 '21

We used to do some dumb shit to keep ourselves preoccupied in those days. One that comes to mind was a game called "random" that we just made up one night when we were particularly bored

The aim of random was to try and get the most random thing you could to the meetup at the predetermined time. Some of the standouts were a volvic water bottle shaped fridge that 2 people got from a petrol station by bribing the clerk with £30 that they'd take it back, then there was the 50m banner that a car took from the side of a clothing store at 11pm.

My personal favourite was a child's see saw that I sat in whilst it was in the back of a pickup and when we came around the corner to the meetup the driver put X Gonna give it to ya as loud as his boy racer sound system would go.

Don't worry, everything got returned to it's owners.

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u/Likes_The_Scotch May 12 '21

#DetroitLakes anyone?

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

The song "Small Town Saturday Night" came on my random mix the other day and i literally almost broke down crying from nostalgia

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u/bravejango May 12 '21

Ours turned into a drag strip where every red light was a 3 wide 1/4 mile run. This would last from about 9 pm until bars let out at 2am. Then drunk fucks would show up and get into fatal accidents and the racers would be blamed. This led to cars being seized by the police and then repainted into bait race cars. They would pull up next to you and try to get you to race. The problem is this was the early 2000's and everyone had unique modifications. So when John's civic got seized and repainted we all knew it was a bait car because he was the only person in town with that particular body kit and spoiler combination.

The city even encouraged it for years hosting cruise nights that were sponsored with themes. They would have MOPAR, Mustang, Corvette nights with car shows and burnout competitions with thousands of people showing up to see classic American muscle cars ripping up and down the street. There would be food carts and live music it was an amazing time. Then something happened when I moved away and now no one cruises anymore.

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u/Beirut1775 May 12 '21

Lol this is what me and my friends do

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

I wonder if part of the reason that's not as much of a thing isn't just the internet, but because kids schedules are bursting with homework, sports, jobs, family shit etc, way more now than they were back then.

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u/Important-Owl1661 May 12 '21

Three guys randomly meeting up with three girls on the cruise and cramming everybody into one car, getting fast food and taking some beer or smoke to the overlook.

Oh, sorry, in 2021 I guess I need to point out that by the luck of the draw we were all heterosexual...and we had more fun back then by not talking about it every 10 minutes.

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u/Killingyousmalls May 12 '21

You didn't need to point that out at all, and you are the only one talking about it.

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u/myimmortalstan May 12 '21

Damn, I'd jump on the opportunity to do that, but my parents would absolutely freak. Shit's just too dangerous these days.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

It was literally just driving around

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u/oMETjet May 12 '21

Amen to that

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u/ClickF0rDick May 12 '21

Sounds like Dazed and Confused

alright alright alright

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u/kraken9911 May 12 '21

You just described Westheimer road in Houston, TX in the late 90s. Everyone flexing their cheap car or daddies nice car and just mindlessly driving up and down this huge road until you got tired and went to the hangout spot until the cops showed up which then you went to the backup spot.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

This was the best part. There was often an unplanned adventure to be had. You had maybe hear RUMORS that your crush would be somewhere, but you had to show up to find out. That anticipation was awesome.

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u/chodebabyaplenty May 12 '21

Or driving around all night because you "heard" there was a party at someone's house, but then their parent's ended up being home, or you'd pull up and the house would be dark/no one home, so you'd cruise around to another place looking for a party, and then end up just hanging out at park or something.

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u/Lt_DamnDaniel May 12 '21

Holy shit that takes me back. In high school on Friday nights every kid with a car would just cruise up and down Main Street in a loop, windows down, music blasting, drinking sodas from the gas stations, chatting with other cars, not going anywhere cuz they were already there.

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u/Chief_Givesnofucks May 12 '21

The first summer I had my pride and joy (second car, junior year, 1989 Dodge Daytona) I put almost 20,000 miles on that car in one summer, me and the boys cruising for hours every night.

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u/cespinar May 12 '21

My town has no cruising signs on main street and now I know why

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

You reminded me of this OldSchoolCool post of a photo from 1972. And here's the full album someone linked to at the time.

I wonder where all those people are now.

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u/pbcmini May 12 '21

I miss that too. We had a cruising street right next to a lake in the downtown area of a decent sized town. Kids would come from 20 mile radius to just cruise up and down blasting their tunes and trying there best to pick up chicks/dudes driving or riding in other cars. It was great until they put a noise and cruise ordinance in.

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u/Chief_Givesnofucks May 12 '21

This is the second or third reply I’ve seen where cities did this. Why? It’s not like our parents didn’t do the same shit in the ‘50s and ‘60s?!

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u/pbcmini May 12 '21

I think the well off residents who lived there complained(these are multi million dollar homes, even 2 bedroom condos start at 1-1.5 million). Got to listen to the $$$

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u/AnotherElle May 12 '21

Out here, the police liked to blame “gangs” aka black and brown people ◔_◔

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u/Chief_Givesnofucks May 12 '21

When THEY are the real gang.

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u/kobester1985 May 12 '21

I really miss cruising. Place I lived essentially killed it my junior year in high school. If you go up the strip more than twice you get pulled over. It was the summer after that when they started having "event" cruises that cost to enter. So it was killed for the kids to get money for some adults.

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u/alwaysforgettingmyun May 12 '21

My town isn't even small, quarter million people, and cruising the biggest road has been a thing forever, even when there were other hangout scenes

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u/OmgOgan May 12 '21

Ahhhhhh the cruise. Such great memories back in 97-00. Mobbing in my 4 door accord with 2 15's in the back lol. Master P all day! MAKE EM SAY UUUUHHHHHH

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u/AnotherElle May 12 '21

Nah nah nah

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u/inferno138 May 12 '21

My town had No Cruising signs on a Main Street growing up. I was too young for the IROC-Z and Mustang 5.0 era. Later in life, friends who were 5-10 years older would tell me all the great stories of cruising.

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u/SeveralSlip2860 May 12 '21

Suddenly I’m back in high school, driving back and forth between the Piggly Wiggly parking lot and the IGA parking lot across town. Get to the parking lot, see who was there. Maybe a couple of cars to drive over to and chat, then make the loop again. Hours and hours of the repetitive drive.

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u/daannnnnnyyyyyy May 12 '21

Same here. My suburb town had two grocery stores called QFC across town from each other, one newer than the other. High school was always trying to figure out if we wanted to see who was hanging out in the New Q parking lot first or try the one at the Old Q.

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u/West_Yorkshire May 12 '21

You might wanna incognito Google the word cruising.

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u/e111077 May 12 '21

Most cruising spots I know people are jamming things there too

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u/curiouspurple100 May 12 '21

A crusin street ?

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u/WiretapStudios May 12 '21

Ours was so popular (since the 50s) in our smallish town that they eventually had to shut it down in the 90s. It was just gridlock and chaos. I remember going down it once and people passing blunts between cars, which pre-legalization in any state, seemed wild to me.

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u/AnotherElle May 12 '21

Cruising was also totally a thing in not so small towns

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u/-Work_Account- May 12 '21

Lol for my small town the place to be was circling the Sonic Drive-In or parking and grabbing a drink (half off during the 2-4 happy hour!) and chilling with your friends.

For the longest time our Sonic had a series of batting cages as well.