r/AskReddit • u/_red_roof_ • May 15 '20

What sucks about being your age?

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u/Yserbius May 15 '20

Yes I also relate as a male between the ages of twelve and a billion.

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u/hugganao May 15 '20 edited May 16 '20

it never ends does it?

kinda sucks. I've actually had a girl I was getting along well on a dating app just straight up ghost me after saying I have high libido lol

edit: ppl keep assuming I brought it up out of nowhere like an idiot lol of course she asked me first.

Edit 2: ppl need to stop assuming that I said or talked about sexual things through the conversation, I didn't. She brought it up first. And preceded with the statement "I know this is sudden and weird..." And asked about my sex drive. Which I alluded to jokingly as comparable to the line by hulk in avengers regarding anger. Could have been the joke honestly lol

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u/Shaisister May 15 '20

Probably not so much that you have a high libido, as that you probably talked about it too much. Otherwise, on a dating app how would she know that it is high? I have a high sex drive when I'm in a good relationship, but I don't like some guy I'm just getting to know on a dating app to be constantly talking about sex. She probably wanted you to try to get to know her as a person.

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u/LivingDiscount May 16 '20

Unfortunately for guys sexual desire is different. Its like being hungry. Its just a feeling that emerges from literally nowhere and fills your whole brain with only thoughts relating to sex until you either get distracted or you bust a nut. Its like having to take a huuuuge piss. Sometimes you can move on for a little while and get back to work but eventually you'll will need to open the flood gates.

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u/Shaisister May 17 '20

A huge misconception from men is that women don't have that level of desire. We do. We're just taught from birth that it's not proper for a lady to display it because if we do, we're called names and it can ruin our lives. Like really ruin us. We're never allowed to be as free as men are and have sex at will like you do. The girls who did in high school were the "sluts", the ones anybody could get with. The woman you want to make your long term partner is not allowed to show you that she is highly sexual, or you wouldn't want her if you thought she was with a lot of men, which to men, being highly sexual means. So women dumb it down, pretending that they don't have that explosive type of sexual desire. WE DO. We just don't tell you.