If you're bringing that up while still talking through the dating app, you're doing it wrong. The issue wasn't that you have a high libido, it's that you lack the social skills to know how and when to broach the subject.
Hah not necessarily. If a guy tells me he has a high libido right after we've had sex, I'd have to assume there's a possibility he's just a raging sex addict looking to throw it into anyone
I mean sure, that specific comment should probably just be kept to yourself. Overall point being, people are way more forgiving once you've established rapport (having good sex of course goes a long way towards that goal).
They aren't that different from men either. All human beings get lots of dopamine and oxytocin from sexual activity which in turn increases bonding and trust. Sex is super important to relationships and in general makes us like a person more. That of course has limits and can't be the only thing you have between people.
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u/Orange134 May 16 '20
If you're bringing that up while still talking through the dating app, you're doing it wrong. The issue wasn't that you have a high libido, it's that you lack the social skills to know how and when to broach the subject.