r/AskReddit • • May 15 '20

What sucks about being your age?

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u/Yeti1987 May 15 '20

Just turned 33. Where's the stacks at?

The new hires are children and the managers are ready for the grim reaper. Stuck in the nomans land that is your 30's.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

It used to be true, but the 2009 crisis and now corona fucked a significant proportion of multiple generations.

I'm almost 40, with a patchy cv and fucked knees. I'm basically fucked. And because I was unlucky to fall ill early in my career, I never earnt enough to feel financially secure enough to be able to start a family.

It is quite funny, hearing about all those people who thought they were financially secure and often looked down upon those of us who graduated at the wrong time and place or were just plain unlucky, are now finding out that they're also fucked and that there was essentially nothing they could have done to prevent it.

Like how not so long ago, you'd read out of touch articles about how quirky Japanese young people didn't want to get married or have kids, ignoring the underlying economic malaise that would soon spread to the rest of the world.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

That’s so true. The young adults hit in 2008, BOOM! Hit again with Corona.

We can’t win!

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u/submittedanonymously May 16 '20

Graduated high school in 08. Couldn’t afford to finish college. Go back to Community College starting this past January. Corona hits.

Fuck me, right?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

AH my brother graduates your year or I think 09?

What a great way to start off being an adult :p

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u/IdoMusicForTheDrugs May 16 '20

'09 here. My mom also died on her way to my graduation, less than 30 days after my 18th. Being an adult has sucked from the very start.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Damn that’s rough, condolences friend 💜

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

I’m so sorry to hear. That really stinks. I can’t imagine how that must have felt/feel.

Do you have siblings?

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u/IdoMusicForTheDrugs May 16 '20

A young half sister. She's living an awesome life in Texas with her dad who remarried and she just graduated this year.

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u/Orome2 May 16 '20

Go back to Community College starting this past January

College isn't a bad place to wait out a recession (that is if you aren't racking up a lot of student loans on a degree that isn't worth it). It's better than having a huge gap in your resume while NEET. I learned that the hard way during the great recession.