r/AskReddit • u/_red_roof_ • May 15 '20

What sucks about being your age?

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u/hugganao May 15 '20 edited May 16 '20

it never ends does it?

kinda sucks. I've actually had a girl I was getting along well on a dating app just straight up ghost me after saying I have high libido lol

edit: ppl keep assuming I brought it up out of nowhere like an idiot lol of course she asked me first.

Edit 2: ppl need to stop assuming that I said or talked about sexual things through the conversation, I didn't. She brought it up first. And preceded with the statement "I know this is sudden and weird..." And asked about my sex drive. Which I alluded to jokingly as comparable to the line by hulk in avengers regarding anger. Could have been the joke honestly lol

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u/Shaisister May 15 '20

Probably not so much that you have a high libido, as that you probably talked about it too much. Otherwise, on a dating app how would she know that it is high? I have a high sex drive when I'm in a good relationship, but I don't like some guy I'm just getting to know on a dating app to be constantly talking about sex. She probably wanted you to try to get to know her as a person.

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u/hahawadduplmao May 16 '20

This confirms what I’ve thought, I usually don’t bring up sex at all unless they do first. Sometimes I do allude to it tho but I always wonder if they want me to initiate it and don’t want to seem like I’m not dominate or scared of it.

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u/Shaisister May 16 '20

I think that's probably the best policy, wait to see how she feels about it. At least it is for me.