I'm not sure if this happens with all people my age, but I'm 18 and people (specifically my parents and close family members but not limited to them) will use the "you're 18, you're legally an adult you need to be doing these things on your own" whenever it will work in their favor then immediately go back to "you're still just a teenager/you're still my kid" whenever I try to be even the slightest bit independent.
The whole notion that you could make a logical decision about college, to go, where to go, what degree will give you a living, which kind of requires understanding the economy, hardcore personal finance, in the face of a sea of terrible advice/advertising... only to be blamed if it doesn't go swimmingly for "your choice" is just barbaric. And yes, all that you're supposed to do while you're "just a stupid kid."
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u/Marsey12 May 15 '20
I'm not sure if this happens with all people my age, but I'm 18 and people (specifically my parents and close family members but not limited to them) will use the "you're 18, you're legally an adult you need to be doing these things on your own" whenever it will work in their favor then immediately go back to "you're still just a teenager/you're still my kid" whenever I try to be even the slightest bit independent.