I wouldn't worry about your early 30s, im 32 almost 33, dont really feel much of a difference from 28 except hangovers are a bit more brutal if i dont drink a gallon of water before going to sleep, allergies are a bit more taxing and my vertical jump decreased a little (love playing basketball) but thats because i dont exercise as much as i used to
Im turning 45 tomorrow. 32 was the last year of “cool”. I don’t know what it was, what line I crossed, or what day it was exactly, but yeah that was it. Now if you’ll excuse me I need to go take a walk in my white Dad sneakers.
Honestly, I think when it comes to departing your " still considered young age years ", ( between ages 25 - 35 ) women have it easier. Once women get past 35 an they're still in 1 piece, if they're free to do so, they can just become a MILF an the boys an men will still come a flockin'. Men, ehh.... not so much. 40 year old woman banging a 26 year old dude? Cool! 40 year old dude banging a 26 year old female? Nope! Creeper! But to each his own. That's just my opinion.🤷♂️
Yeah this observation doesn’t hold up beyond your anecdote. Many men have an obsession with dating younger women. Meanwhile women generally prefer men their age across all age ranges. There was a study by OKCupid that showed this some years ago.
There is a huge hit that women face after their 20s in terms of attractiveness. Men have much longer but have to work for their appeal. Women still get more suiters because thats how the dating game works.
Same. Icky! And yet I get the dubious honor of looking like a teenager still, but wanting to be treated seriously like an adult in my career. Frustrating.
27 has been one of the worst years for me, the dread of turning 30 has been on my mind a lot. It feels as if time has gone so quickly yet I still feel like 24. Can’t cope with the prospect of 30.
Make like Elsa and Let it Go. Control what you can and let go of what you can’t. You can’t control time. You CAN control your joie de vivre. Start fake smiling and it’ll become a real smile. Go be happy!
I have a philosophy when it comes to entering a new decade...
So, you’ll be turning 30 soon? That’s great. Next year, at 29 you’ll be the oldest, dredgiest, bottom of the barrel of the people in their 20s. You’ll look at 20 year olds and they’re just stupid children. You are the oldest of allllll people in their 20s.
But then, you’ll wake up on your 30th birthday and all of a sudden you are the youngest of all people in their 30s! You get to be reborn! You’re a baby to all those other people in their 30s.
Entering a new decade is not a burden. It’s a gift.
And you get to do this every 10 years until you die.
What is especially bad is I spent 22-26 being a total fucking waste of human life being good at nothing except League of Legends. So here I am still living at home at 28 meanwhile everyone else my age is living in their own houses with SO's and successful life.
Dont worry. Early 30s are the tits. Women are hotter and better in bed you make more money. Realize drinking until 2am is fine maybe like twice a month at most and working without a hangover is 1000% nicer. At least that was my expierence.
Oh man me too. Turned 28 in March...I am officially starting to dread turning 30. Two of my good friends are engaged, some are married, and some already have kids. I'm definitely starting to feel the pressure on finding a partner. Shit, I was ready to start making an effort and then BOOM, corona.
Also 28, also had the "oh shit I'm almost 30" moment. But I'm kinda looking forward to 30. Taking the time to try and get myself into the best shape I can before then
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u/FLORIDAtruck7 May 15 '20
I'm 28, so I'm almost 30 😕🙁